Is it normal that i want my wife to be more submissive in bed?

I told my wife that I want her to be more submissive in bed. I especially like to hold her head while she’s giving me a blowjob and thrust my cock into her mouth. I also like to tell her she’s a good girl and that I want to fuck her mouth and hear her whimper and gag while she’s blowing me. She seems to be totally into it. Is this normal?

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87% Normal
Based on 15 votes (13 yes)
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Comments ( 24 )
  • SkullsNRoses

    If you’re discussing expectations and limits beforehand and agreeing on a safe word/ signal then I see nothing wrong with what you’re doing. Carry on.

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    • baldboy

      This is the crazest thread I've ever read on this site

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    • Wow3986

      You are a sorry excuse of a human being. BOTH of you.

      This man is talking about wanting to have control over his wife, literally getting off on the idea of degrading her, and your response to this controlling misogynistic piece of shit is that it's "normal"? You're sick. He literally said how he wants to hear her "gag and whimper." How is this shit normal?

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      • Bigtom155

        My my. Sounds like someone is having a tantrum and needs a spanking.

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        • Wow3986

          Okay, so you're fetishizing child abuse, I see.

          My my. Looks like someone needs to be locked up in a mental hospital. Actually no, you need to be locked up in prison.

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          • Bigtom155

            Lady, you’ve got problems and should get some professional help.

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            • Elroy7141

              This wow3986 person starts on everyone’s post. They’re a troll I’m sure. They even moaned at me once for making a grammar mistake on hear lol

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            • Wow3986

              Funny coming from you. Very hypocritical, actually.

              I'm not the one fetishizing child abuse. Sounds like that warrants some professional help to me, sicko. I also see you support misgendering people. Nice👍

              So not only are you sick in the head, but a bigoted low life.

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  • DADNSCAL

    Whatever satifies you both is cool. But don't hesitate to try being the obedient cunt eater yourself sometime. It's very rewarding and she'll love you for it.

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    • Bigtom155

      I’m very oral and love to eat her pussy as well.

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      • DADNSCAL

        Good man.

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  • Wow3986

    No. Actually, that's revolting.

    Degeneracy at it's peak.

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  • Tommythecaty

    So normal it’s not even thread worthy.

    Now get out of here you rascal.

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    • Wow3986

      This guy is blatantly admitting to wanting to abuse, control, and degrade his wife, and you say that's normal?

      You're mentally disturbed.

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      • Tommythecaty

        Because it’s just a fetish for abuse, control and degradation.

        And plenty of people have a fetish for being abused, controlled and degraded.

        The two people are playing characters, are acting it out, nobody is actually looked down on by the other. I practice it, and I don’t look down on them in the slightest. I actually hold girls like that in higher regard than most, they’re great. It’s really not that difficult a concept to grasp.

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      • RoseIsabella

        I don't understand why some women, or men for that matter, would want to be submissive like that, it's just gross, and degrading.

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  • farkelu

    Lucky you!

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    Grab the back of her neck and squeeze when ur fixin to cum. Itll make her whimper then you'll blow q gallon load

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  • darefu

    I'm not sure I consider that really that submissive. It's semi normal for most guys.

    Now, if you said here hold my beer while I use your mouth, that's submissive.

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  • oldgoat65

    Sounds good to me. She's a keeper

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  • RoseIsabella

    I don't see the appeal. I'd rather watch a man die right in front of my eyes than be submissive toward him. 🙂

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  • OSCARUK

    If she was totally into it then you wouldn't have to ask.

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  • Tinybird

    dom sub is gross

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  • Tinybird

    gross

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