Is it normal that i would prefer to stay single?

I've never had any long-term romantic relationships in the past... they've always lasted for a few months at the most, and typically ended with the other person leaving. However, I've been with my most recent partner for over a year and a half at this point, and we've also been living together for over a year.

Over time, I've started thinking that things aren't working out, and I could never think of a specific reason, just that I was happier when I was single. I've also considered that perhaps I just don't like the idea of living with someone else and I would have similar issues if I lived with a roommate, but don't have any personal experience to back this up.

Part of me just thinks that I prefer the freedom of being single, compared to the commitments one has to make when they're with someone else, having to be available for any favors or tasks that they might require of me.
Also the freedom of being able to go out and do what I want whenever I like and not being metaphorically tied-down.

I think a lifestyle that I would prefer is one where I continue dating various people without ever settling down, but this doesn't seem like a type of lifestyle that many people seem to live, and I worry that I might be stringing people along by dating them with no plans to take things any further than that.

Is this normal?

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91% Normal
Based on 22 votes (20 yes)
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  • GuvnorsOtherWoman

    Perfectly normal. I am, shall we say, of mature years and am still single and always will be. I have no desire to marry or even have a relationship. In fact, I have never been in a relationship. Don't want one, don't need one.

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  • sweetone89

    Just please be sure to inform them when you begin dating so they don't end up hurt.

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    • raegankoko

      this

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  • SkullsNRoses

    Long-term monogamous relationships are not for everyone. If you find yourself resenting your partner just for existing it’s probably time to end the relationship.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    You will probably end up stringing your self along into getting into a serious relationship. They usually just happen. You meet a girl you really like and then next thing you know its serious and you are forced to make sacrifices or piss her off and she leaves

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    git a property with his & hers houses

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  • Somenormie

    Yeah

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