Is it normal that my ex trolls me by pretending to be girls?

My ex sent scat porn to my phone number, using a fake number, and pictures of girls that have my specific insecurities. I didn't know what those pictures were at the time bc I didn't open the link. But my guy friend gave me permission to troll him back with his nudes and a video of him jacking while moaning my name. So I guess that made my ex mad, he made like two different numbers from a textapp and acted as a girl. I pretended to be my guy friend to defend me and tell my ex that I already have a man. My ex didn't give up. He sent another girl's pictures and her nudes and wanted me to admit to being lesbian (I'm not). He pretended to be this girl and Idk where he got her pics but poor her. He basically said she's prettier and that my "boyfriend" should be with her and not me. So I kept playing stupid and acted as if I didn't know that my ex is pretending to be a girl. Considering he's trolled me before so I know how to respond better, now.

Anyways, my guy friend said he f***ing loves me, tonight. And he wants to date me. So this is all quite interesting ..

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  • ellnell

    Your ex sounds like a really creepy, controlling and desperate guy. He obviously can't stand you moving on or anyone else having you so he's trying to break you down as well as making your guy friend not like you anymore as he's probably jealous of your guy friend. You should really block him everywhere and possibly contact the police. If it were me I wouldn't respond to him anymore and certainly not say bad things to him and trigger him more, just don't give him attention at all plus it will look better if you haven't in case you need to report him which is possible if he isn't leaving you alone. You never know to what lengths such an obsessesed person may go to.

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  • bbrown95

    He's obviously not over you and is obsessed with you, and trying very hard to make you feel insecure.

    Personally, I would disengage completely and block any numbers or accounts he uses to contact you. Don't respond to him at all, as he is hoping you will.

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    • He also sends my number and pictures of my guy friend off his social media, to random girls, hoping the girls would skank over my guy friend and divert his attention away from me. I send them on their way but it gets annoying.

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      • bbrown95

        If the pictures are nudes, I believe that is illegal and called revenge porn. May be worth reporting and possibly seeing if a restraining order is possible if he refuses to leave you alone.

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  • my_life_my_way

    I pretended to be a different girl and trolled my ex bf for months though when he found out it was me he took it surprisingly well. He could still be in love with you but he’s most likely just doing it for a laugh.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Your ex is a pathetic piece of shit. Why haven't you blocked him yet?

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    • The messages still show.

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      • RoseIsabella

        He's probably using a Google phone number, or something. You might have to call the cops, and tell them he's harassing you.

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  • That reminds me of the love triangle from Grimm

    It's a sign of good mental health if he can recognize the deficiencies in someone else (recognize, not attack)

    Maybe you should let things develop with this other guy and forget that loser, or maybe you could end up sending him a picture of the two of you in the same bed!

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