Is it normal that my fat friend pisses me off?

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We met in high school, and now we bond over supernatural/adventure shows, and Noragami. I'm on the average side of weight, coming in at 143 lb and I'm 5'8. I lost 50 lb in 2014. If you were to look at my friend you'd guess she was easily over 200 lb and shes 5'6. I don't hate her, I'm just frustrated because we've walked together but she quits on me and always calls someone to pick her up, she's tried some healthy food and comments on how it's not bad but she doesn't keep up with it. She treats cheat treats as everyday treats. I was eating a chocolate chip cookie from chick-fil-a the other day and she commented on it saying, "Oh... So you're savoring that?" No you bitch I was taking small bites of something you'd scarf in five seconds. I just stared at her nonchalantly and she dropped the conversation.

I'm a feminist.	6
I just came because I hate fat people too and have no useful advice.	6
I hate gluttony too.	3
Mind your own and let her wreck her body.	21
Live and let live...	14
Maybe you shouldn't be friends.	11
Try harder to change her lifestyle.	7

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cocknballs

7 years ago

the part about calling someone to pick her up is kind of pathetic.... at least finish what you set out to do.

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- Ellenna
  
  7 years ago
  
  Maybe she just can't? Is she supposed to get OP to wait for her until she can keep up?
  
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  - cocknballs
    
    7 years ago
    
    She has two legs, she knows how to walk.
    
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    - Ellenna
      
      7 years ago
      
      Overweight people get out of breath quickly and need to stop walking: how ignorant are you that you don't know that?
      
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      - cocknballs
        
        7 years ago
        
        These are very basic human functions. If you're out of breath, you stop for a couple of minutes then continue. What I hear is excuses and low pain threshold.
        
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        Ellenna
        
        7 years ago
        
        And if you're fat it will take you longer to get your breath back
        
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cocklips

7 years ago

Totally normal. FATTIES piss off most people.

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- Ellenna
  
  7 years ago
  
  And fat haters really piss me off
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    7 years ago
    
    Why? Being fat, as you clearly are, would lead to a multitude of health problems.
    
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    - Ellenna
      
      7 years ago
      
      No, my health problems are caused by smoking for far too many years
      
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wigz

7 years ago

Fat people can be very rude and insensitive yet demand tolerance and acceptance for themselves. Most fat people I have known well enough constantly dismiss smaller people as simply being 'lucky'...never acknowledging that a lot of these people work very hard to maintain their size. Slim people have struggles too and it's pretty offensive to be treated as if we don't put any effort in to our health or that it's somehow easier for us. No...for most people it's an everyday deal to not overdo it, we have to tell ourselves no and actually follow through and deny that cake and get up and go out for a walk while you fattys want to whine and make excuses for yourselves and ignore the work that goes into being healthy by chalking it up to 'luck'. It's quite offensive to assume someone just got something handed to them when in reality they work hard for it.

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- mysistersshadow
  
  7 years ago
  
  I catch shit for being to good at it and I hear some of the rudest remarks whispered that I'm pretty sure are meant for me to hear. I don't think many ppl appreciate the willpower and work that I put in. My work is 90% physical and I go to the gym at least 5 days a week.
  
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  - Faggy_weiners
    
    7 years ago
    
    It's just jealousy, that's all it comes down to.
    
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    - mysistersshadow
      
      7 years ago
      
      Thats what it seems like.
      
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theabider

7 years ago

I have a similar friend. It's a sickness. Sometimes if you can't help, you just have to watch in silent sorrow.

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Kilgore.Trout

7 years ago

Why would you waste a moment of your life worrying about something you can't control?

So it goes.

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Ms.Dempsy

7 years ago

Wow dumb.

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sandnigga

7 years ago

That just sounds rude of you

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  I know I can be rude sometimes.
  
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  - sandnigga
    
    7 years ago
    
    as long as you didnt actually say that to her lol
    
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Ellenna

7 years ago

You're not her friend although she may be yours. Ever occurred to you she may have an eating disorder? She needs support to change that not spite and criticism.

If you can't be supportive her, as in kindly telling her you're worried about her health because of her weight, then just stay away from her

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  And so it's okay for her to criticize me. Okay~. Guess it doesn't matter either that I encourage her to join me all the time. And I had a mild eating disorder where I wouldn't eat for weeks that I got over through therapy. I say mild because I would still drink water and fruit smoothies.
  
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  - Ellenna
    
    7 years ago
    
    Not Ok for either of you to be criticizing each other if you're friends: there are better ways of giving support than criticism
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      7 years ago
      
      Thank you Dr. Phillena.
      
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      - Ellenna
        
        7 years ago
        
        You're funny
        
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yourdeepestshame8

7 years ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RjJ-p6YaJ3I&index=9&list=PLh3bIxwhtkJ7z1Mj1kGq6Nxe8mO9jPQFw

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The sailor is dead

7 years ago

143 lbs for a girl is NOT average. Thats heavy for a girl!

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- gypsysailor.lost.his.account
  
  7 years ago
  
  Heave Ho! Aweigh, the ship’s anchor,
  lads, climb-up, the tall ship’s masts!
  Unfurl the sails white billowed,
  all pray, the stiff trade winds blast!
  
  Men briny from white-capped oceans,
  Terra Firma’s, a distant quest.
  Feel the salt spray, stinging the faces,
  of the ship’s crew, tossed fore and aft.
  
  We’re compelled to sail the oceans an’ seas,
  with a plumb compass an’ a ration’s tack.
  Tattoos an’ a Gypsy squeeze-box melody,
  the gale blows on our ruddy backs.
  
  R.I.P. the sailor
  
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  - Beep_Beep
    
    7 years ago
    
    Aye matey. A fine tribute to our sea faring comrade whose death makes our sheltered corner of the Internet all the more empty. Sail on in the breezes of eternity.
    
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  - theGhostOfGreenBoogers
    
    7 years ago
    
    We, the deceased of IIN, welcome you to our after-life and memories of a fine life well lived.
    
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- sandnigga
  
  7 years ago
  
  depending on your height
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  I'm fucking tall. Yup I just checked and my ideal weight is 139. I'm doing pretty good stranger.
  
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  - The sailor is dead
    
    7 years ago
    
    Fair enough. I retract what i said. You're "average" although its always better to be thinner
    
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  - Cocktimus_Prime
    
    7 years ago
    
    If a good amount of that is in your tits well good for you.
    
    5'8 is tall for a woman so you definitely aren't fat, or at least fatty fat fat.
    
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