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She's only 22 and she has 3 kids aged 4 (will be 5 this year), 2 (will be 3 this year), and a baby that's only a month old. IIN? I'm happy for her yes, but it just seems a little bit awfully young to me.
Not sure. I wouldn't have kids at 22 years old. I don't have any but if I did I would have them at 35.
Physically she's probably had her kids at the best age for a woman: financially maybe not, but anyway the kids are there so speculating about whether or not she's too young is pointless.
Either way, it's not really any of your business
Yep it's normal. I'm 27 and people younger than me(19-14) have 2-6 kids already. They wonder why I haven't had any and even go as far as to call me selfish for not wanting kids. Most of the ones that have tried to call me out are on welfare and don't even have good relationships with the mother or father of their kids.
I feel that this amount of children at a young age is a bit strange but if she is happy with the decision shr has made then I do find this normal
Yes it's normal. I believe sex should be at an appropriate age. But it doesnt work that way but whenever your ready it will happen.
I had sex when I was 16 for the first time and got pregnant the same night. Lol. Now I am 20 and have two beautiful daughters. Its hard but there is options out there. Everyone do what is best for them. But not this one.
#proudmommy
And if you don't want to have sex and someone makes you this is including oral whether being the giver or reciever, that is called rape. I know you know this but i felt i had to throw that in there.
I'm guessing you must be a white male with an enormous fedora collection.
Yeah I'm mix black and german. I've said this numerous times And i never worked that is what mommy and daddy is for. Lol And what do you mean tax payers money?
Im married to a 72 year old man with 5 houses and hella bands. And i down voted you. Lol =-O
Can't you read? OP is writing about her friend, not herself. Ah well, racists are like that, just plain ignorant
If you think being a mother to 3 young children isn't work you're also being sexist: ever tried it? Just because it's not paid work doesn't make it any the less work
I am her friend. I've only known her since I was 4 or 5. It just seems a little odd and early since most people don't start having kids until their 20s (let alone have 3 before the age of 24). That's all I'm saying. I'm not saying what she did is wrong. And I said I was happy for her. She was the one who let me know about her family. :\
So you've been "friends" for most of your life but she had to let you know about her family? WTF?
I am a friend to her (I try anyway) and no, I don't think the father is in the picture (It seems he has married someone else). She's single. I think she's happy though. No need to curse or think I'm saying she's in the wrong for the life she's living. I'm not trying to pick at her choice at all. I was just wondering if it was normal or not since nowadays, childbearing and raising is often put off until one's early-mid to even late 20s or early 30s. You even see people in their 40s and 50s having babies. She's currently the only 22-yr-old I know that has 3 kids. I was just saying it's not normal to me. But then again, my mom didn't have my older brothers until her late 20s and I wasn't born until she was 39 (nearly 40).