Is it normal that my husband lovingly makes me stay naked at home?

I have been married for almost 3 years. This whole time I am always naked at home as my husband has insisted. He is always loving and kind. He never gets mad at me or does anything mean. The rule is, as soon as I get home I am to fully undress and I do. He has never forced me, though he has always encouraged this. He told me even before we got married that this is what he expected. He was upfront and honest and so I chose this life, happily cause cause I love him so much.

I have no regrets, I am very happy in our relationship! :) I just want to know if this is normal and there are other couples like us?

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65% Normal
Based on 79 votes (51 yes)
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  • DebuGS

    Totally Normal, there is nothing more natural and beautiful than the human body (not sexually thinking). I believe that there is nothing wrong with nudity and would love to be naked all the time (unless weather limited). The ONLY problem is OTHER people having a problem with it.
    In America, we are taught to be extreme prudes and we should be completely ashamed of any nudity.
    This “taboo” attitude leads people getting overly excited over next to nothing. Just think of a normal American guy going to a topless beach in Europe, can you imagine how hard it would be for him not to ogle and “salute the flag” to every pair of breast walking by.
    I grew up in the same type of prude family, but I got out and traveled and it wasn’t until living in Japan and falling in love with the hot springs. I had to start off at some semi-private baths, now I love the completely “open-air” baths that are gender neutral. I had my parents visit and took them to one of my favorite hot springs and they couldn’t even go to the “private” bath I arranged for them. I loved Japan so much, I married a Japanese woman. However, I have a serious problem, it turns out that she is more of a prude than most women in America.

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    • Nakedathometeo

      my guess is that your never discussed this with her prior to marriage. Just assumed she would be fine with it. Surprise. now your are stuck. Would have been much better to discuss your wishes and desires for a nudist life style early on before the relationship became well a relationship

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  • justlooking1976

    Wives should always be naked.

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    • GrooveThing

      Indeed, some girls are simply too beautiful to be covered!

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  • laura80

    My husband makes me go nude in our home even if my parents are over

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    • Nakedathometeo

      Its a shame that he feels he has to make you. He shouldn't have to make you do anything. Your body is a gift to him you, I am guessing were not forced (made) to marry your husband were you?

      then why not freely give him this gift. After all he has made it known that he desires it of you. What are you afraid of?

      Not sure why he feels the need to make you go naked around your parents. Why? Whats the point? and why do to do it.
      why do you feel compelled to go nude when your parents are there?

      Are you nude when they enter your home? Or are your "made" to go get undress once they arrive? Perhaps made to strip in front of your parents. what do your parents think about this.

      Is your husband nude to?

      Just wondering what the dynamics of your marriage is.

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      • laura80

        I’m naked before my parents come over and I submit myself to my husband because we have a CDD marriage and I receive corporal punishment with with a wood paddle or his belt when I disobey him.

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        • Nakedathometeo

          Dear Sweet Laura,

          I applaud your willingness to submit to your husband in such a manor. I understand the concept of a (Christian Domestic Discipline) CDD relationship but wonder if you find that you are submitting to your husband in love? That is do you love and trust your husband in all things to the point where you know it is your husbands desire for you to be naked for him all the time, and because of that love for him you willingly give over all your clothes to him exposing your full love and devotion to the man you love. Or is it given out of the fear of being subject to a spanking with a wooden paddle or his belt that makes you submit to him? There truly is a difference between the two acts.

          Ok so your naked lets say all or most of the time as your husband desires. And if your parents come over when you happen to be naked for him, your expected to stay naked? For what purpose? What do your parents think about you being naked? Are you allowed to put clothes on? Or are you expected to entertain them while remaining naked. Are you the only one nude? Is your husband naked too? Who else are invited in to see you naked? Brothers, Sisters, friends, neighbors?

          I’m just trying to understand your and his motivation here. How old are you? Do you have any children? I hope to hear back from you as I truly do care and want to understand.

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  • goodatgiving

    When dating over 5 years ago and I saw my then GF naked for the first time I jokingly commented that she was so beautiful that if I married her I'd keep her naked all the time just to enjoy her nudity. She replied that if I did marry her she promised to stay naked all the time. We were married in Mexico on a beach and at the finish of the ceremony she removed her bikini and stood naked in front of everyone. Now almost 5 years later she still remains naked 24/7 no matter who is visiting. She has been seen naked by my friends, family, neighbors, etc. She only dresses if we go out somewhere and then dresses as scantily as possible. You wouldn't believe her outfits. She works very hard at keeping her body in peak beauty and loves sharing her beauty with others. I am proud of her and condone and encourage her nudity and sharing.

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    • Nakedathometeo

      Good for her, but I wonder why you need to share her nudity with your friends, family and neighbors? I would think that you would want to protect this precious gem not exploit her.

      I to am a naked house wife. I knew this was how my dear husband wanted it be well before we were married. He made is intentions known almost from day 1 he wanted a naked wife, I chose this life style and it has services me will for over 11 years now. but my best friend, husband, leader protect me. and my nudity, our nudity is reserved for only our family including our two children.

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  • My wife is naked all the time at home, not because I force her to be, but because she wants to be. She will even answer the door naked to the delivery boy, should see the reaction to this. No it's not normal but that how she likes it and I'm not complaining.

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  • rocketdave

    When I was married we were in Thailand, we were both nude or nearly nude all the time, it's too bloody hot to sit about dressed, and much more fun to relax naked.

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  • Staci

    I was raised that women should be bare for their men.

    I think it was more from my Mother's side of the family that believed in that. My Mother and 3 aunts were very often nude at family gatherings, my Uncles saw each other's wives nude, and eventually each others nieces. We did not think it was strange, it is just the way we were brought up.

    The men, my brothers and boy cousins were always dressed.

    I think it was a lifestyle passed down from grandmothers, that women are to be submissive in a certain way.

    I and my cousin Sandy are both very successful and powerful attorneys, Sandy will most likely be appointed as a Judge very soon. But at home we are bare for our men. I only point that out because being submissive to my boyfriend/husband does not mean I am not a successful person outside the home.

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  • redmerlot

    Unless you don't like it, there is nothing wrong here.
    What's "normal" between you and your husband is what makes you both happy.

    Frankly, I wish my wife would do this for me, but she won't.

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  • Handyman

    As long as the sex is good, do it.

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    • Nakedathometeo

      why do people always equate nudity with sex. oh never mind the screen name says it all.

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      • Handyman

        Lol. How many wives are you, and do they all agree to the master?

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        • Nakedathometeo

          First off I serve only one master "My heavenly father" My loving husband is not my master, although I try my best daily to please him. He is my soul mate, my partner, my confidant, the husband of our children, the bread winner, and some times bottle washer. I chose this, was not force into this life style "choice". When we get home from a shopping run, outside activities, church, etc it is my choice, to quickly and quietly with out any fan-fair strip off of all my clothes and continue on any activities we are doing.

          In the evenings or chilly mornings while watching TV or having a cup of coffee, I am free to wrap a throw over me. Sometimes I might have just a pair of socks on, or even just a shirt of some kind leaving my fanny still exposed for his viewing pleasure.

          My husband is not walking around with any sort of an erection gawking or oozing body fluids every were I am.

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          • Handyman

            Great for you, and happy for him. He is a good teacher.

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  • jodi1955

    my wife is naked most of the time at home and wears very little when we are out shopping or out to dinner. I love it an she says she prefers to be naked or almost naked all the time,, cant complain. example, out to dinner, extreme mini skirt, no panties and a sheer see through blouse no bra, same with shopping. she doe not even get dress a lot of the time when we get company,

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    • Nakedathometeo

      I fully support being comfortable at home for our husbands as he asks, but fail to see the purpose of being practically naked outside of the home you said "extreme mini skirt, no panties and a sheer see through blouse no bra, same with shopping."

      For our family it is just that a family thing. When I/we leave the sanctity of our home we dress quite modishly. But once home everything comes back off.

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  • GrooveThing

    Be happy that he finds you attractive enough to keep naked!
    This is very practical that you wear nothing so much of the time. You will save a fortune on clothing expenses, along with keeping your water, power, and supplies down with less laundry. Additionally, less clothing in warm weather means you will not need your cooling bills as high.

    This should continue for as long as you are married, or at least until you find yourself expecting for the first time. Better to spend your money on doctor visits and nursery furniture than a bunch of clothes you will not even need for more than a few months!

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    • Nakedathometeo

      Why wouldn't he find you attractive after all it was you that he chose to marry. No one, not even him can keep his 18/19 year old looks for ever.

      In reality why would you stop (which I didn’t) even when expecting having children. And yes the savings in wear and tear on clothes in addition to laundering expenses are immeasurable.

      I see the immense sense of pride on his face as he see me nakedly getting the children ready for school as he leaves for work. However most of the time he is able to work from home, usually 2 or 3 times a week. And there I remain naked until he returns in the evening with that gleam in his eye as he finds me still as he left me naked as requested and without shame.

      Of course I get dressed to run errands and such, however the first chance I get I quickly disrobe until we are together again. As winter approaches here in the northeast on occasion socks and a short tee or sweatshirt may be in order to deflect a chill for a short while or throws around the TV sitting area. But usually not as I follow his lead.

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      • GrooveThing

        Since you now told me you stayed naked even while pregnant, please tell me how that worked out. Did your hubby find you even more sexy while carrying his baby? How often did you have go to the doctor, and did you stay dressed while being examined? Did you take pics of yourself naked and pregnant, as it has seemed to become a rite of passage these days? As a nudist myself, I find tales like this very intriguing.

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  • Nakedathometeo

    not sure why you guys feel the need to be naked in front of every one, family, friends etc... We enjoy being naked with like minded couples and family's but respect that others are not so inclined. So we can keep our clothes on if it makes our guest more comfortable. We want out home to be comfortable to all who enter, even if that means that we have to have clothes on for a few hours. but as soon as we can get them off the better.

    Those that know of our life style are free to join us. however clothes stay on until a comfort level is established. And our quest are open and willing to explore the nudist life style.

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  • BlueEyedRascal

    My wife and I are always nude at home. Even if friends or family stop by for a visit, they are used to it now. Some were shocked to begin with but accepted our way of life as good friends should.

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  • BlueEyedRascal

    My wife is the one that I be myself st all times which is nude. She wears light clothing usually but always expects me to be nude. Even if her daughter drops in for a visit, I'm always expected to be nude.

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