Is it normal that people always stare at my gf`s hand?

Hello is it normal community,

to start this off I'll give some information about my gf.
She's a beautiful girl, but she was born without her left hand. on the left side she only has half a thumb, I don't know how to explain but I think you get my point.
When we started dating I didnt even notice it until we went out and ate something because she needed to hold the knife to cut a steak.
We are in a relationship for a long time now and also live together and so on.

But in the last weeks I noticed people always staring at her left hand. I mean is this normal? I see how people see it, talk to their friends and them turning around to also look at it. Is this normal?
I never did this and dont know why this is so special.
Is it because it is something "normal" people dont know?
Is it because it is different to a "normal" person?

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68% Normal
Based on 41 votes (28 yes)
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Comments ( 5 )
  • bubsy

    It's not just normal, it's instinct to notice differences in people. This is primal-level stuff and unless they're being mean it's not something to worry about.

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    • guyiwthaname

      That was basically my thought. But I dont know, somehow keep noticing how strangers talk about that and i find it unusual. But thanks for the good reply :)

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  • privatepropertykeepout

    Stand proud,,,stand tall.

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  • tonyyaa

    If YOU find it unusual, imagine how your girlfriend feels. I bet she's been criticized her whole life. Fuck what people think and show her how much you love her. No one is perfect.

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    • guyiwthaname

      Thats what I do, I love her and show that to her.
      Always didnt give a single fuck about thoughts from other people. I just noticed it more recently. But you are totally right. Thanks lad

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