Is it normal that someone thinks using block buttons means you're childish?

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So what do you call a situation when a guy is supposedly interested in you and he asks literally one dozen questions in a single text message at a time, and expects me to answer them all. And when I tell him that I feel interrogated, he calls me things like "childish", etc bc I'm telling him that he makes me uncomfortable. I asked why cant we just have a normal conversation. He said "You are deflecting my questions."

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago | pl

    Who cares what this loser thinks?! If this dude is freaking you out, and creeping you out don't hesitate to block him! Honestly, what kind of asshole talks to a girl like he's interrogating her, and then has the nerve to give you shit, and say, "you are deflecting my questions"? You don't owe anyone any explanation, and he's a controlling weirdo who probably has some mental disorder if he's giving you so much bullshit, and grief right from the get go. The only good thing that has come of this is the knowledge that he's not for you, and you are definitely not interested.

    If doesn't matter what this guy thinks, just block him if he can't chill out, and leave you alone.

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    • SkullsNRoses
      3 years ago

      “You are deflecting my questions”, does he think he’s a lawyer questioning the accused or something?

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  • Boojum
    3 years ago

    Blocking this guy was the right thing to do.

    What you describe does indeed sound like an interrogation, and his response was definitely a red flag. Rather than accepting your feelings and apologising, he shifted all the blame on to you and belittled you. This is the response of someone who is manipulative at the very least, and possibly even somewhere on the psychopathy spectrum. The fact that you've asked this question here suggests that he succeeded to some extent in undermining your self-confidence, and that's a very bad sign.

    You have the right to decide who you want to talk to. Anyone who tells you that you must talk to them and that you're stupid or childish for not wanting to talk to them is a person you definitely should avoid.

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    • [Old Memory]
      3 years ago

      One of the few times I use street dialect and I get down voted, you expound upon my comment and get up voted

      Where's the justice

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      • Boojum
        3 years ago

        If you want justice, you've come to the wrong place.

        BTW, if you're wondering, I didn't down-vote you; I haven't been able to do that for years. Which is kinda ironic, since I'm sure there's at least one user here who automatically down-votes just about everything I say.

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        • SwickDinging
          3 years ago

          Yeah, you and a few other users seem to be on a random automatic downvote list of one of the users... I was on it for a while but then they gave up on me.

          Perhaps now I have mentioned it they will start downvoting me again. Exciting.

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        • YE
          3 years ago

          Who is that? I'm curious.

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        • [Old Memory]
          3 years ago

          I don't think you would do that, that's more in line with someone who's immature

          One of my first posts, something about quantum mechanics, you commented from a place of understanding so I've always had a bit of respect for you

          I hope it's not weird to say that haha

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          • YE
            3 years ago

            No. I hope it's not weird to reply thus.

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            • [Old Memory]
              3 years ago

              I don't think so, just another rabbit hole

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  • SwickDinging
    3 years ago

    He sounds like a nob. You don't owe this guy anything. Let him go and harass somebody else.

    He's probably very used to being blocked and is getting fed up of it. Not your problem.

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  • donkeykong716
    3 years ago

    I think he's the one being childish. And a bully. Just back off, dude, is what I'd say. It's your life, it's personal and private.

    Mostly he's not being respectful.

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  • Nazzersaw
    3 years ago

    You should just hard pass on that guy.

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  • [Old Memory]
    3 years ago

    Sounds like he's super serious and you're super chill

    Random down voting? Are you strong enough to put words to your actions? I feel pretty confident about my assertion

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