Is it normal the # of partners i've had?

is it normal at the age of 19 to have had 12 partners???

im a 19 yo female.

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33% Normal
Based on 885 votes (291 yes)
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  • Captain_Kegstand

    Eh, whether its normal or not, I dunno. Who cares? As long as you do it safely, keep yourself clean, and don't contract any STD's you can sleep with whoever you want! I will still think the same of you!

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  • anti-hero

    I would think that is higher than average.

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  • bleach_baby

    Just because most people suck at getting laid doesn't mean 12 is a lot. I've slept with ten guys and I'm 22. Most of the guys I know are in their twenties or thirties (partner wise, not age wise lol). It basically depends where you are in your life - I'm at university, so having a bit of fun is the accepted norm. You say you've moved around a lot, so you're probably in a not dissimilar situation. And fuck the idea of a girl being easy - if a girl enjoys sex and wants it of her own accord, how is that easy? People need to get over the victorian idea that sex is something that girls do to please guys and ought to hold out on - if I'm doing something for my own pleasure, I could care less whether it makes me "easy".

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    • gayboycanada

      I feel the same way. I'm gay and I enjoy being with guys a lot. It's not harming anyone and it just feels good. Wether I've had 5 or 50 partners it depends what you are comfortable with. If you enjoy sex then who cares what others think?

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  • That seems like a lot for any 19 year old, male or female.

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    • And I don't mean that from a moral standpoint; just that it seems like it is more than average for anyone of that age.

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      • taylor-mae14

        thanks for putting it in a nice way. =) i thought it was a lot that's why i was asking. im trying to be a better person now.

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  • olliefokx

    Its normal, I'm a 19yo male, I've had 29 sexual partners

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  • DrHotdog

    Perfectly normal. Wanna be friends?

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  • chainsaw88

    I'm 21... have had 11. I think by the time when I turned 19 I had been with 3. By the time I turned 20, I had been with four more that year... so I had 7. I guess it's more than average, you should probably slow down. GOD looking at this number I can't even believe I've been with 11 guys, most of them were virgins so I feel like they barely count since they sucked so bad. :/

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  • ZommBeee

    I'm 20 and slept with 31 guys. It's normal...ish lol, with the majority of them I have been protected. Not all of them have been one night stands ether. I am currently in a long term relationship as well and my partner doesnt mind, in fact he puts it down to 'I was young, still am.' If your happy and taking protection then by all means enjoy yourself...
    And too all you trolls/'haters' out there... COME AT ME BRO. I don't care what you say. (:

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    • titsnball

      What time does your legs open?

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      • ZommBeee

        Fuck off titsnball. I know where you live. >.>

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        • titsnball

          So I am guessing quarter past never?

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          • ZommBeee

            Yes for you babes. <3

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  • Surge762

    I think its normal, I had a lot more and I am disease free and healthy in my 30s. Haven't found love yet though.

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    • taylor-mae14

      thanks =)

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  • X_x52-_-Scarsx_X

    OMG shes not even pretty! she must b datting online

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    • taylor-mae14

      actually. i hate attention. and definitely not a whore. i dont hurt people, people hurt me. and actually i am pretty. you cant even see my face in the pic. i definitely dont need online dating. if you are so judgemental you must really be insecure in your life.

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  • gordeaux2010

    Met wife when she was 23, she had 32. So you're not bad. I was 24 and I had 26.

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  • spazatikal

    I'm 20 and before my relationship now, I slept with 16. (2 of them having been on Ambien so I had no idea it happened. GRR)
    I always feel sorta guilty about it, but I constantly need to have sex. It's fucked up, and I don't know why that is!!

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  • Dad

    I think its ok, you are obviously pretty.
    Young teenagers these days do have multiple relationships, true they don't sleep with all of them, but then again I hope you haven't either?

    I think I've had about 27 serious relationships (you know when you think its forever, oh well) and non serious? I give up, but obviously more.

    Mind you out of all my relationships there's still only one that I should have stayed with. Big regret. I broke up with her because she was too homely and I wanted to party. What an idiot.

    As for the ex-wife > Definitely her fault!

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  • Aleks85

    Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww................ Skankaroo..........

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    • taylor-mae14

      and how old are you?

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      • Aleks85

        26 why

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        • taylor-mae14

          i woulda guessed like 14.

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          • Aleks85

            Well then I guess you suck at guessing. =/

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            • Mark3L

              hahahahahaha

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            • taylor-mae14

              or your kinda childish. ive never herd an adult use the phrase "Ewwww.... Skankaroo...."

              anyways i was just curious.

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  • lc1988

    I think I had 1.5-2 at 19...def above average from my standpoint.

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  • Rolex0

    you're an easy slut. not sure y you let that many guys hit. keep your legs closed.

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    • taylor-mae14

      not easy im actually picky. but Ive moved around a lot lately and when you meet new people things kinda just happen.

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  • What a whore...why do you seek such attention and affection from men that the only way you feel fulfilled is by sleeping with them?

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    • imkindofalady

      Who says that's why she does it? There's such a f***ing bias with guys and girls and I know people say this a ton but really- maybe she likes the feeling? I mean, I'm a pretty fulfilled person but feeling just plain old filled is a pretty damn good feeling too.

      Just because you're either sexless or in a darling committed relationship doesn't mean you have to bash on other people's lifestyle choices. Grow up.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    How much do you charge by the hour?

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    • taylor-mae14

      you couldn't afford me,

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      • MrLong!

        I could afford you. Even if I couldn't, you'd enjoy it enough that it'd be free!

        8=====D

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      • GoraIntoDesiGals

        Even if I couldn't it's not like I'd want to in the first place. I don't like used tires.

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        • ZommBeee

          You couldn't even afford used tires mate... Let alone a girl for one night.

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          • taylor-mae14

            Ive realized people who put people down are just insecure.

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            • astroglide

              My motto is as long as the number of partners is lower than your age its ok! Hey, im a woman who loves sex too, nothing wrong there

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            • ZommBeee

              Is that aimed at me? Because I was trying to stick up for you...

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  • maxtor

    it may be normal for you but for someone else it might be a few too many. at 19 that is quite a few but if you enjoy it and keep yourself safe from STD's then i would do it. i have had probably 200 partners in my life but i am quite a bit older than you and have been to many countries. even since i have retired i have probably had 50 since 1997. i have always been quite handsome and always had a way with picking up women so what is normal for you is normal.

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  • ahpolo14

    yes, i was the same way ...

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  • keeping_up_with_da_kids

    You are a whore problem solved.

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  • lonelyone18

    am 18 and ive had 7 and most of my friends are 19 and have had 20 something so i would say its normal

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  • yabayaba

    I lost my virginity when I was 18 and had 2 by the time I was 19, and then within another year I don't know what the hell happened but I had sex with another 10 guys. I became so disgusted with myself I stopped having sex. Now I'm 23 and have only had sex with 1 guy in the past 3 years.
    I think it's normal to accumulate up to 12 guys over several years. But if your a skank like me who sleeps with a bunch in a short amount of time, thats just bad.

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    • taylor-mae14

      i dont think your a skank because it actually happened in a similar way. i had a rough time with family issues and just life in general so over the last 2 years ive gone a bit crazy. ive been trying better too.

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  • heybuddyalicia

    I'm 19 and I've had 12 partners...wow small world. Though now I have been married for over a year so technically I had 12 partners before I was 19 but personally I'm happy I was with that many. I got to experience different things before I got tied down and i wouldn't have it any other way.

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  • XxKatiexX

    Classy.

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  • lilaithe

    Like the movie "Saved", yell out "the muffin shop is closed!!" and slap those thighs shut girl, give that coochie a rest. God damn.

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  • MrLong!

    I'm 22 and have had 4 partners.

    Granted, my 1st time with a girl was when I was 14.

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  • X_x52-_-Scarsx_X

    o_O ur a attention whore once a whore always a whore :P haha anyways u should like go die -_- and stop hurting people k its not cute its just sluty :p

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    • imkindofalady

      Go to school.

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    • taylor-mae14

      umm how the hell am i hurting people? and if you say the phrase "haha anyways u should like go die" you should grow up.

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  • zackattack

    I know a few girls with that number? That being said yes it's very high.

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  • it's_all_too_much

    Don't listen to rude comments. I've had more partners than the average woman for my age but I'm happy with it. When it comes to discovering sexual pleasure it's great to experiment and see what you like. As long as you're being safe about it and having fun why not just enjoy it?

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  • loveechelle

    I mean this is normal.

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  • Normal in my book, but i'm prolific as hell.

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  • dongwhan

    Are you into older guys? What? I'm just asking.

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    • taylor-mae14

      actually yes i am, Ive done a lot of research on maybe why i do. most things i have found say that its a "daddy complex" but i also grew up fast. i helped raise 2 of my brothers with my mom. but yes i do like older guys.

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  • ovr.dhaa.rainbow420

    its good your trying to be better but it doesnt mean ur bad. it depends on the sercomstances of the sex and how it happened

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    • taylor-mae14

      usually alcohol is involved. or i date someone and were together for a while before anything happens.

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      • ovr.dhaa.rainbow420

        then its not bad ; shyt happens as lonq as ur tryinq to be better now thats what matters :D

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  • plum6

    depends where you grew up as well, I think that in eastern europe for example this is more common than in western europe..

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  • bam361

    don't mind these people calling u a slut, it is normal, me personaly have only slept with 6-7 women and im a 23yo guy

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  • Avant-Garde

    I don't know, but it certainly isn't the worst I've heard. There was a girl on Maury and she was in her early teens. That girl was a full-fledged Slag! She proudly said that she had slept with 200+ men and that idiot was pregnant! You had to see it to believe it.

    Be happy that you aren't her. The number you've had is your business. Play safe and always use protection.

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  • monkeybrain

    Yes it is normal :) You're in the prime of your life and attempting to find a partner can be very tricky. Sex is a fantastic thing and as long as your safe you should sleep with as many people as you damn well want!

    Don't listen to these boring fools calling you a slut - they wish they could have the confidence to get with that many people!

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    • taylor-mae14

      thanks. yeah people have proven to be very mean. i never planed being with that many people. it just kinda happened. i am not a slut i dont just sleep with anyone. i am picky and i do have standards. but sometimes i just feel the need to "get laid" how come guys can be with everyone and net be balled names? they get high fives for it. but yet here i am being called a slut. i realize its high but i never asked for name calling.

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      • imkindofalady

        Preach it, girl

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  • bigtoy

    Depends on how old you were when you lost your v-card.

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    • taylor-mae14

      14, i know its young and i think its totally wrong looking back at it now. but me and my bf where together for 3 years. then i was single for a while, im not much of a dater.

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      • bigtoy

        That's only 2 a year on average. I don't think that's so bad.

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