Is it normal this one-sided childhood rivalry

When I was in middle school and upto highschool I used to always top my grade consistently. However there was always this girl in my class whose mom worked in the school and she was very competitive wanting her daughter to take first place. At the time I just enjoyed learning and my position. I only competed with myself and I still do. The other girl never proved to come close to my scores and made it to 2nd place but she managed to be chosen by the teachers as president and me deputy president of the school. I left that school to move to a better highschool but people have the idea that we were rivals and are still comparing me to her, even my mom became this pageant mom... It really annoyed me and now highschool is over the people at her school still keep tabs on me. I don't care because I'm my own person and really don't want to be updated with her boring life as my mom still feels the need to do. I just want to know if this kind of one-sided rivalry on her part is normal...

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52% Normal
Based on 21 votes (11 yes)
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    I think its normal...she tried to compete with you.
    does like no one have lives??? Always checking up on you comparing you ...even your mom?
    Maybe she has a problem since she was never able to beat you so she is still trying? this can go 2 ways...one its good for her because she keeps trying...but could go bad if she is obsesed.

    Everyone else you have mentioned...the people always comparing ...need to get lives.

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