Is it normal to absolutely despise "politically correct" interactions?

I live in a state that was never a slave state nor a state which slaves fled to prior to the Civil War. It doesn't have any big cities or the kind of economy that really motivates people to move from their home state to this one. Because of this, there's not a lot of a black people where I live, although I do have a few black friends and acquaintances (it's such bullshit that people are so retarded that simply clarifying that I have some, but not an enormous amount, of black friends is considered hard evidence of my own racism)

Regardless, my friends and I got along really well for most of our lives. It wasn't until pretty recently, the last 5 years or so, that it suddenly became impossible to have a conversation with them without having them jump down my throat about "white privilege", "microaggressions", or some other "woke" bullshit

Originally, I treated them just like I would any of my other friends, which includes quite a few Polynesians and Latinos. I treat them all the exact same. But because of fucking Critical Race Theory, now I'm apparently the most disgusting, hateful racist since Adolf Hitler, and the sole reason for it is because I DO treat them the same as I treat everyone else

CRT is so fucking stupid. If you're not black then treating your black friends the same as you treat friends of your own race is considered racist. If you're not black then treating your black friends how you THINK black people want to be treated is racist because you have the audacity to assume what it's like to be black. Basically the only way to NOT be racist nowadays is to read your black friend's mind, understand how they as an individual perceive what it means to be black, and then ensure that every single interaction (even things as minor as nodding hello as you pass them in the hallway) is curated to perfectly match how they both want AND expect to be treated as a black person in that insanely specific context. Otherwise you're racist

So fucking moronic. How much longer is this horseshit going to go on for? Because it's sure as fuck doing nothing but destroying race relations, even among people of different races who previously had very close relationships