Is it normal to answer like this?

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Yesterday a friend of mine asked me go out with him with a text message. In said text he referred to himself as "world's best virgin". This message frankly scared me, not only because he's way to young to worry about his virginity, but also because of what he was implying. I got a lot of pick me boy vibes from him and later told him that I couldn't make it because I was busy with school work(which is strangely true) and that we would see eachother tomorrow (the next day we had a party).What alarmed me more was the way he reacted to this "rejection": he got irritated and didn't even use full phrases. I apologised and explained myself and he didn't seem to belive me, almost as he was trying to pity himself.
While I get that I might have been rude, I just didn't feel like going out alone with someone who uses self-deprecation and manipulates his friends into hanging out that night. I even tried to explain to him why that first message was weird to me, but he took it as joke.

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  • DaneMcFain
    1 year ago

    Yeah he's acting weird. Typical incel shit. If you truly value him as a friend you need to let him that he's acting like a weirdo and women don't like that shit. Women like men who act as though they have options, not the bullshit he's on. Hopefully he can handle that but if not, he's an incel

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    1 year ago

    You didn't do anything wrong, he just seems a bit strange. If he starts harrassing you, then maybe it'd be better to break off the friendship. He might get over it though.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    1 year ago

    Always go with your gut when it comes to men/boys. Thats a gift women have and it keeps them from being harmed. Women have good intuition. But also give him some slack he's young. When you are young you say a lot of stupid things.

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  • ospry
    1 year ago

    It's not rude to turn someone down. It's a lot more rude for the person to be a little bitch about it when their advances are refused

    When you said he gets pouty and doesn't even use full phrases, I picture a salty teen crossing his arms and poutily saying things like "Me good virgin", "why no want sex?", or the ever-endearing "please respond"

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  • normal-rebellious
    1 year ago

    He's not weird, and as much as these normals take their own conformity seriously and try to make you tell your friend they want to be normal, nobody does that, you're not overconfident about your friend, I think he's acting like a boy not a man who can't get girls, he's seemingly a Catholic, Catholics tend to abstain from sex, he's tied into his own beliefs, just not something original like making things up, in all due respect nobody talks to someone if they talk of beliefs nobody else has, if you despise him it's because he's typical, typical people are underrated, you hate them so much if they're acting the weirdo, I'm not the one who gives a flying fuck about this, I only care about my ten things to love about life and not issues I can't convert to a sweet life. That's because you're not enjoying this, unless you're lying, I don't believe everything on the posts, they might be lying.

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    • Tommythecaty
      1 year ago

      I think his only hope is the potato king.

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      • normal-rebellious
        1 year ago

        Count me in, I can be a potato king anytime.

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        • Tommythecaty
          1 year ago

          Have you got a magic carpet?

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          • normal-rebellious
            1 year ago

            Yes I've got a magic carpet to sit on and smoke tobacco that flies.

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  • kikilizzo
    1 year ago

    He sounds silly. I have a guy friend like that who occasionally puts himself down to get you to disagree, and has some pick me-antics to him. Hes nice though and a good friend so I tolerate it.
    If you think hes a total weirdo then dont be friends with him.

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