Is it normal to be a straight 20 year old and not give a shit about sex?

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Heterosexual male, 20. Want a relationship at some point but don't give a shit about sex. To me a relationship is basically living together as best friends. Deep conversations, do daily things together, and hugging is very much preferred tho. I guess I don't wanna be alone. It's not that I'm against sex or sth, I just dnt care much about it. None of my friends understand where I'm coming from, parents- LMAO.

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  • [Old Memory]
    2 years ago

    Yeah it's called being asexual. I'm the same way. I could probably have sex if I had a strong enough trusty bond with someone but mostly because it's what you're supposed to do.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    2 years ago

    Do you find women sexually attractive? If not you may be asexual and hetroromantic. This website has lots of information about asexuality, I recommend reading the frequently asked questions:

    https://www.asexuality.org/

    You may not be asexual and just have a low libido, which is also completely fine.

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  • idolomantis
    2 years ago

    There’s nothing weird about that, everyone has a different sex drive. It doesn’t really matter how old you are or what your gender is.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    Its both. Best friends and sex. Maybe youll find a girl thats not horny.

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  • Somenormie
    2 years ago

    Yeah I personally do not care about having sex these days.

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  • bbrown95
    2 years ago

    I'm pretty much exactly like that, except I don't mind being alone and have grown to like it. But, my idea of an ideal relationship was always more of a very close friendship and I never had any interest in anything sexual whatsoever, and still don't. It's uncommon, but normal. There's certainly nothing wrong with it. I have friends who cannot wrap their head around how I feel either, but it just is the way it is.

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