Is it normal to be devastated by a girl at a club?
I asked a girl to dance at a club and she looked at me like I was garbage and said, "With you?". I didn't know what to say and just went home and cried. I never been so hurt.
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I asked a girl to dance at a club and she looked at me like I was garbage and said, "With you?". I didn't know what to say and just went home and cried. I never been so hurt.
Yeah, that was rude. Obviously nobody is obligated to dance with you but she didn’t have to be a bitch about it. Maybe she’s had previous bad experiences but that still doesn’t mean it was okay for her to be like that with you. Keep your head up king
'wanna dance?' 'with you?'
'so you just wanna get straight to the blowjob then?'
I'm sorry she was so rude to you. However, please don't take people like this to heart, nor let them dictate how you feel about yourself. Those people are losers if they treat people that way who have done nothing to them to deserve it, and it's likely they are that way to everyone and are miserable people, and will end up with no one wanting anything to do with them over it.
Unfortunately, there will always be hateful people who act like they're above others (though these people are typically extremely insecure and actually feel inferior to others, so overcompensate by being arrogant and rude) and will talk down to you. The best you can do is know your worth and not let anyone else dictate it or make you feel bad about yourself. Her opinion of you is worthless (opinions are like assholes; everyone has one and they all stink, and that goes for her as well 🤣), so try not to let it get to you so much.
Learn to take rejection with stride. You're going to run into plenty of assholes like her in life. Letting this moment get to you isn't worth it. Dust yourself off and try again with someone else.