Is it normal to be scared of losing my friend when she goes off to college?

My friend is turning eighteen soon and will be going off to college while I stay here and I'm terrified of losing her.We are really close and a better friend I coildn't ask for and I don't want us to go our seperate ways and lose touch with each other. I don't want to forget her. Are these feelings normal?

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  • takethesebrokenwings1

    If you guys are really that good of friends then you guys will still be when she goes to college. Just stay in touch, skype and plan to meetup every couple of months or even every month.

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    • Failedcasanova

      Thanks for the advice I'll have to do that. :)

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      • roses34

        if you are truly best friend,then you can stay ogether NO MATTER WHAT!!!!!

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  • zwerty

    I had to add blue 0 0
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    • Violet_Heart

      lol you ruined a pattern

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  • AnonymousCanada

    eventually friends drift apart and others come and go. this is a fact of life but if she is a really good friend then this shouldnt affect your relationship. just dive into the problem headfirst and hope for the best.

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  • Violet_Heart

    My best friend moved far away from me before =[ We saw each other every other weekend and we always were so happy to be together, then she finally moved back! =D lol She hated the other place anyways and now we're together all the time ^-^

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    • Failedcasanova

      Thanks for the hope.

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      • Violet_Heart

        Yea, even if she can't see you often she definitely won't forget about you! Especially if you're bestfriends♄

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        • Failedcasanova

          To be honest i want to be so much more than friends.

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          • Violet_Heart

            I sort of realized that from your last comment.. I just don't know what else to say. =\ Sorry and I do hope everything works out for you two. =]

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        • Failedcasanova

          Im worried about forgetting her. When we are with each other i stare at her so i can engrain her into my memory. Because after college even if we stay in touch all that time i will probably be off in the marines and she would be a zoologist somewhere.

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          • Violet_Heart

            You guys won't forget eachother, just spend as much time as you can together before you separate. =] Someway you'll reunite again ^-^

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