Is it normal to be scared to lose virginity? (woman)

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(For men its different it doesnt hurt or bleed or anything so you have dont get it as usual)

Ive been scared to the point of questioning if I want sex at all. Its not important to me, just a physical thing but thats a whole different topic. Is it normal to be so worried about losing your virginity? Its just that I hear so much, most men are apparently worthless in bed. Doesnt SOUND very pleasurable to me! It apparently can hurt to have sex in case you have vaginitis or something and then I have to go the gyn AND expect a pfft MAN to care and not just move on! What is this, fantasy land?! And what if it bleeds a lot when I lose it, how embarrassing and gross would that be! How do you tell a man you're a virgin when you are 24 years of age especially when he knows you have dated?! I did tell one man and it made no difference he didnt care and said he wants his sex NOW and then he CRIED Typical MEN! Yes I did consider dating a woman they are attractive but I just cant help but to be drawn more to mens faces voices and hands (unless they have gross tiny babyhands). Im scared of intimacy too and I dont like naked bodies especially mens ugly dingdongs and its too CLOSE!

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    3 years ago

    I lost my virginity at 26. It didn't hurt at all. We just masturbated next to each other and then when I wanted it in, we used lube.

    Perhaps it wont hurt if you're aroused and use lube first? If your partner doesn't want to take it slow, they're probably not worth it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Okay thats a good way to do it I guess

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  • Grunewald
    3 years ago

    You don't have to, and nobody worth sticking with should make you.

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  • bbrown95
    3 years ago

    I've always been freaked out by it, too. I don't have a sex drive to begin with, so just felt it was not worth it to me and had no upsides to it that I could see, so I've just never tried it. I figured if I really don't want it, why should I force myself?

    Everyone's situation is different, but if you don't feel ready, don't allow anyone to pressure you into it. It doesn't matter what age you are or what your reasons are.

    Also, if a guy has a toddler-esque tantrum and cries "I want my sex NOW!", you really dodged a bullet.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    3 years ago

    If you’re wondering if you do or don’t want to have sex with someone, you don’t want to. And that’s completely fine. Celibacy is a valid choice at any age.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    3 years ago

    You got issues woman

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