Is it normal to be unaccomplished in your 20s
I feel like the biggest failure ever because I turn 25 soon and have accomplished nothing.
I have studied a lot and have 2 degrees but one of them is mostly useless.
I've so far never had a job. I barely get by each month. I have a condition so obviously things are harder it never gets any easier. I am hoping that this fall they will truly be able to help me as I know pretty well what I want I just need help getting there. I am trying to build habits now and structure but its hard without a single drip of motivation for anything in my life. I have no strong feelings about anything these days, i'm mostly just null and very tired yet I dont really sleep just stay up every night. I want to change that but I don't know if it will work. My mental health declining so much sometimes my parents wants to take me to the psych ward because I am functioning less and less well and sometimes get irrational with panic or paranoia. I am going to try my best but I feel like my whole life has passed I should really be well accomplished with a successful career, rich social life and all that jazz at this age. My younger sibling has those things and is younger than me. I compare myself a lot. I wonder if that's how it should go, getting a great job at 19 years old and an apartment and a lovely partner and have tons of supportive friends without much effort. Just somehow being a very naturally likable person who seems to attract things without trying. Or maybe thats how simple it is for most others ? Or does anyone relate to me ? I compare myself a lot and I feel very useless.