Is it normal to become straight?

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I am almost 40 have lived as a gay man for my whole life. I am married to a man and have been for years. But suddenly I have become straight. I still love my husband, we have a bond and I don't intend to leave him. But I am no longer attracted to men, only women. I have never been with a woman but I would like to get a girlfriend maybe move her in to the spare room and have a baby even. My husband has been very supportive of my feelings.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Hormonal change, hmm?

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  • Only_of_you
    6 years ago

    If he supports your decision and thinks that an awesome idea, go for it! Make sure she’s okay with it too.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      "She" doesn't currently exist lol and I suspect finding a person interested in that situation would be extremely difficult, and finding one that I have the proper connection with next to impossible. But should I find that person I will most definitely "go for it" as you put it.

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      • bob7
        6 years ago

        yup it is impossible to find a girl that would wanna have a kid with a guy that is married to a man , unless you pay her

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  • SoundlessFOB
    5 years ago

    It might be hard to find a girl who would want to do that but if you find one then go ahead

    Also can you think of a reason for your sexuality and its sudden change

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    I have never heard of it but I suppose it happens. Bi is much more common but to switch from gay to straight I have never heard of it.

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  • Voray
    6 years ago

    Not really. Did you have some kind of traumatic experience in your past that caused you to gravitate towards men? Or were you always bi but suppressing it?

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  • strivetofit
    6 years ago

    It will probably be very hard to find a girl that would do that. Either way, if your husband supports the idea... that's good, you can still be with a woman and there's no need to have a baby. Plus if you would really want to have a baby, you should take that step with your husband, you've got to remember who's going to raise the child.
    I wish you loads of happiness and good luck ♡

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  • diapertim
    6 years ago

    It is possible to become straight or gay. There is no pathological proof you are born either way.. My doctor says it is simply how you were imprinted or influenced by hormones, environment or curiosity.I married at 29 had a rough start but had 3 children.. now all grown. I love my woman and would never cheat on her. My first sex was accidental with another bedwetter boy at age 14. A discovery of sucking each others hairless penis as I was attracted to his slight odour of pee. We are still regular friends today although we never talk or wish to go back there. love is love.. I hope you are able to resolve your wishes..let me know.. I feel for you. hugs.. Tim

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      You had no hair on your dick at 14? Weird

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  • Mynameisbecki
    6 years ago

    What is normal? So long as you are happy.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Buy I'm not happy. Why would I be?

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  • Dustyair
    6 years ago

    It's whatever you're into. I was married, had many relationships, but give me a nice inflatable, and I'm a happy man :)

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    could be normal, i go on facebook and find so many old queers married with kids nowadays, happens when they get bald fat old looks fail you know 40+ then they marry a chubby woman that has little mileage , perhaps a little incest in the younger years . the butter faced ones . have a child . they look happy. So do the wives. i did the same thing but i was on my third marriage, to a woman. Could be the guys were bisexual to start with. Im not joking i have two married brother-in-laws and a best friend that were queer at one time.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      I'm confused, are they chubby or are they butter faces? A butter face is a chick that has a great body "but-her" face is busted. But if her face is busted and she's chubby, isn't she just plain ugly?

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      • Nickvey
        6 years ago

        chubs, butterfaces , practice chicks . you know im lumping them altogether . they all are willing to marry a gay man just to have a child. they are plentiful too . too many to count.

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