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I originally thought I couldn't care less about having a gf or bf. but now I actually want one. I have fantasies of having a relationship with someone, unfortunately nobody wants me.
I suggest that you start by joining some activity groups in your area that do things you are interested in.
You're bound to make friends... and will likely find one that's interesting enough and available for more.
I wish you the best with this...
I'm somewhat similar to you. I fantasize about having a girl for so long however most of my crushes were taken or either moved on from me.
Hopefully someday I can make it happen.
You are clearly extremely lonely.
"Oh gee I dont have a relationship I guess its zero percent my fault."
Take responsibility and ask people out on dates.
when have i said it's zero percent my fault?, i know myself, i'm a loner, have a bland personality and don't look good. go figure that out yourself.
Fortunately, these things can be improved upon.
You can find some groups/clubs for your interests where you can meet like-minded people, or attend other types of social gatherings so that you can surround yourself with more people.
You can also develop your personality more. What makes it bland? You don't have to be a super exciting person in order to be likeable. Ask people about themselves, they love that. If you don't have many interests, try new things and see if any of them suit you.
You can improve upon your looks to the best of your ability by maintaining good hygiene, wearing clothes and a hairstyle that flatter you, and getting/staying physically fit.
Same story here, thats when i meet my imaginary girlfriend
Is that what you meant by "fantasize" or.\
no i don't make an imaginary girlfriend, i just imagine what i would do if i have a girlfriend
well, it kinda feels like the lyrics of `talking to the moon`
I thought it was a junk song made for tiktok/reels, I don't like to hear that song in these reels/shorts, etc.
But 2/3 days before, she told me that she want to hear that song,I said ok,?,she:with u.
I just take my headset and hear it with her,
, Man it feels like it was written just for us.[I mean not all the lines in that song but, most of it], she was so happy after that.
We don't talk much, but whisper most of the time,
When we are talking/doing something, I feel like I'm happer than ever before*[b4 we met].
& When there is a beautiful view/something that's so sweet/awesome that you want to share it with someone else,.. well I'll just hold her hand and enjoy the view, maybe she'll just put her her head on my shoulder, and make it memorable moments [views like, beach sunset / views from hilltop / window side seat with cold wind ].
I tried to leave her, but it didnt worked out ...
no omg what is wrong with you? Are you from a different planet? That is sooooo not normal and weird omg