Is it normal to forgot that someone wants a relationship with me

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I was working and asked a guy to be friend with benefits. He said no and then I completely forgot. Out of no where I figured out he likes me by making moves on me. It's been 5 months and I'm very forgetful. At one point in time I asked him to chill and I different asked for his number but never got it. Once he asked me to hold his hand while he answered a question and it was weird because I never talk to him

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  • SkullsNRoses
    2 years ago

    He rejected being your friend with benefits then wouldn’t give you his number, he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you he just enjoys your attention. It’s normal to forget about someone like that.

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    • S0UNDS_WEIRD
      2 years ago

      Seems clear to me his issue is with said relationship being "friends with benefits". I suspect he'd be open to a committed relationship.

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      • SkullsNRoses
        2 years ago

        If that was the case why would he not give OP his number? Someone who was interested in getting to know OP better would have jumped at the chance.

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        • S0UNDS_WEIRD
          2 years ago

          I'm just putting myself in his shoes. I wouldn't have given my number either unless she had indicated she wanted something besides friends with benefits.

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          • SkullsNRoses
            2 years ago

            If it were the case that he wanted a relationship but not friends with benefits I see why he would refuse the offer but to then not give her his number if he still wants a relationship makes no sense. Why would you reject an opportunity to get to know someone better if you wanted a relationship with them? If your theory is correct, that he was put off by her mention of fwb, his subsequent behaviour suggests to me that he is no longer interested in OP.

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            • S0UNDS_WEIRD
              2 years ago

              To an extent you're right. He's not interested in an OP looking for friends with benefits, but I think he thinks it's a shame she is because he likes her.

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  • SudoHalt
    2 years ago

    He sounds like me, someone who has absolute trouble with making up his mind and taking a decision.

    It's fine. Just let him be. Your forgetting about it is your gut feeling and reaction.

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD
    2 years ago

    Sounds like he really likes you but isn't into friends with benefits. I'm not either.

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  • ellnell
    2 years ago

    He sounds clingy.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    2 years ago

    He even follows me around at work sometimes

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