Is it normal to give a gay friend invasive medical exams?
My friend is gay, and he asked me if I could check his junk for him because he says he thinks he has testicular cancer or a tumor. I'm a med student, and lately he's been asking a lot of private personal health questions, he's a bit permiscuous and prescribes to a few not-so-safe/hygiene-friendly habits. I've been trying to be as understanding and reliable as I can with him, as I've always been very unbothered by invasive medical procedures or things that other people might be turned off to, I have absolutely no problem talking about moreso "embarrassing" health situations. I'm not certified to give exact perfect answers but it is kinda nice to have some practice.
He seems pretty genuinely curious/nervous. He's also requesting a prostate exam and other tests that aren't as suggestive, but I've had run ins before with having to tell him to back off a bit if he got a little too touchy feely flirty. I don't want to sound like I'm insecure about my sexuality or anything cause he really likes to harp on that, I just don't know if he has alterior motives and just wants to get felt up.