Is it normal to hate the intensity of male urges?

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Is it normal to hate how undisciplined the male flesh can be?

I hooked up with this chick I always wanted. She's superficial, the typical hot mean girl. She only ever gave me attention after I reached a certain financial and social status. I knew this, but still couldn't resist the urge. The experience was everything I expected plus more. Not to go into crazy details, but I had multiple orgasms. And I could tell I satisfied her, and was better than she expected. The sight, sound, smell, taste, and feeling of it all was unworldly good. I felt so replenished after words, felt like I drained all the stress and anxiety out of my body. Had the best sleep of my life after as well.

But after time went by I started to regret my actions. I kept hating how I gave her attention. Knowing she wouldn't care about me unless she had something to gain. And how I couldn't rely on her in my lowest moments. Kept reflecting on who I was. A fun loving person who loves friends and family. Video games and writing, and whole bunch of other stuff. And how I mixed souls with somebody so fake and superficial. Knowing that I couldn't truly be myself around her, and being ignored by her in the past. But still choosing her once given the option.

Has anybody been through a similar situation? And does anybody else help how weak the human flesh can be? Let me know.

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  • KholatKhult
    1 year ago

    Horniness makes some people very very very stupid
    When I was younger I was stupid like that, I became much more stoic and disciplined as I got older though. I think age and maturity plays a role. I’m married now so I don’t have any of these issues anymore

    Deciding on what you want with a partner is important, setting hard limits will narrow your vision significantly and weed out a lot of unnecessary focusings.
    Or if you’ve no interest in a relationship at the moment, sticking with one or two friends with benefits is usually enough to curb thinking with your dick rather than your head, easier to stay sexually satisfied against distractions.

    We’re simple creatures, and getting off is a reward for the behavior that led to the event, you don’t want to reward yourself for bad behavior. We only have so many social energy points in a day, you don’t want to waste them on relationships that are deadends or incompatible.

    Discipline is incredibly important for some people’s sexuality. Some folks luck out and don’t have to worry about such things, it sounds like you’re the type that does. I wouldn’t drone on this past encounter though, just use it as self reflection to stabilize from here on

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  • SkullsNRoses
    1 year ago

    Having sex with someone does not devalue you as a person, you still love your friends family and can still enjoy your hobbies. This experience has not taken that away from you.

    You regret that she would not find you interesting were you not financially stable however you don’t sound like you would be interested were she not physically attractive. It’s unfair to hold her apathy for your feelings against her when neither of you would be there for each-other in hard times.

    I’m confused that you say you mixed souls with her yet couldn’t truly be yourself around her- those facts contradict eachother. It sounds like you’re struggling to accept that the sex you had meant nothing.

    Fundamentally the decision as to whether the regret of meaningless sex is worth the pleasure in the moment is yours to make.

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  • dabadedabadie
    1 year ago

    I can't resist sticking my dick in crazy.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    1 year ago

    I have a wife so it wouldnt bother me if a chic was using me. I dont need 2 wives. Just a mistress here and there on the side maybe then we go our own way.

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  • RoseIsabella
    1 year ago

    They don't call em lesser urges for nothing.

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  • kikilizzo
    1 year ago

    It is. Men are predators to women because they struggle much more with controlling their urges than we do. Lesbians for example can easily be in a changing room with other women without even thinking to assault anyone or act creepy, and they can easily be just friends with other women and respect boundries. There is a huge difference between the genders.

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  • Crocotta1
    1 year ago

    I find myself to be much pervier than other women, I have even scared men before. I masturbate five times a night, I’ve never actually assaulted anyone, but I’ve had thoughts of doing it, thankfully it’s mostly fictional characters. I use rule34 regularly and wish and pray that god will deliver me from this.

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