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the girl in this situation is so afraid of what people will talk and think. should she ?
I’d say it depends on the people, if he’s got another year and a half of highschool and she’s in her third year of uni it could be inappropriate as they’re in such different life stages. But if he’s in his last last year, and her her second year perhaps it wouldn’t feel so bad?
Follow your gut, if it feels wrong end it.
Completely normal in my opinion. It is only 3 years. My parents are 9 years apart and my sister and her husband are 10.
I'd say in most situations it would be normal.
In a few situations it would not be. Those situations would involve the older person (in this case the young lady) exploiting a younger person (in this case the young man) where the older person clearly is in a more powerful job/social/political situation.
Its legal. Not to mention the age gap isn't that much of a big of a deal.
ahh,,,no,,that's one hell of an age gap, i mean 4 years apart? noo,, def not. i see it this way, you're 20, and therefore a legal adult, he/she/they're a 17 yr old, still technically a minor, ya'll should def split before legal trouble ensues.
I wouldn't have been inteest in dating people in high school when I was 20 nor would I have felt it was appropiate.