Is it normal to have these dreams about him?

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Okay so i met this guy last summer at a club.. He actually just stole me from another guy that I was already talking to for hours, he just came up with his perfectly biuld up body 10/10 kind of looks and bam hits on me in the middle of a chat and i shamelessly get on board next thing I know we are all dancing and all like couples but nothing intimate yet. So he took my phone saved his number as "future hubby" we became friends good ones and we've slept together like 3 times ofcourse months later after knowing him. I realized that I would develop Strong feelings for him so i decided to stay away no contacts nothing I deleted his number.. However im always having dreams about him coming to meet my parents.. It's just like am in a relationship with him, one time I dreamt that we had a huge fight because he tried to cheat on me but failed and i really got disturbed because of that dream. So today for the 3rd time I dreamt that he came to my parents place in the morning randomly without telling me and we spent the whole day then my dad comes in and tells me it's time to go, in this case I have to go with him.. It's really disturbing me I just need opinions.. Is it normal for me to get these dreams? cuz we are not dating or anything. No insults please.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Try not to obsess about this dude. Dreams are just your subconscious mind on the playground at recess. Honestly, I think this guy would turn me off with how pushy and over confident he was.

    You said you deleted his number and that ya'll aren't dating or anything like that so naturally I have a couple of questions. Who was the main person to initiate most of the contact, because after you called him the first time he ought to have your number and make an effort to call you. Did you do most of the calling perchance? Did he ever call you? Did he ever take you on a proper date or did ya'll just have three booty calls? Have you ever considered the possibility that he's just not into you?

    I think it would serve you well to pay more attention and be more critical of overly confident, perfect 10, alpha male types. Everything you described in your initial meeting with this guy screams douchebag tool not prince charming!

    Then again, I could be quite wrong about all of this and you may very well have a fear of intimacy and a fear of commitment. You said ya'll became very good friends, whatever happened to all of that?

    I'm not trying to be rude, I'm just curious.

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  • ☆☆☆I'm☆A☆Star☆☆☆
    7 years ago

    Wrong point of view. The proper way is to get him dreaming about you. Everybody dreams about me because ☆☆☆I'm☆A☆Star☆☆☆!!!

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    Normal. You're deeply into a confident and masculine guy, like most girls.

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    • cutegalsly
      7 years ago

      In other words you saying it doesn't necessarily have anything to do with this specific guy right? Hmm fair enough.

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