Is it normal to like your scars
I cut my self frequently, and I really like when the cut heals and i can see the scars
Is it normal?
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I cut my self frequently, and I really like when the cut heals and i can see the scars
Is it normal?
congratulations on showin the whole world yall got mental problems insteada keepin em hidden like normal people
... or better yet, actually seeking help for those mental health issues. I think OP ought to look into studying about mindfulness meditation.
As inappropriate as it may be, That is what I never got about self harm cutting - it's got to be a cry for attention (although they usually claim it isn't), or possibly a fetish. Or they just don't give a crap. I too have felt the urge to harm myself, but keep it internal - using loads of alcohol of course, like a normal weirdo!
I think it could be sexual. For me I reckon it was because I turned out to be such a kinky fucker long after I stopped.
You self harmed?Yeah I Can see it be a hardcore offshoot of S&m, I know (from this site) bloodplay and knifeplay are a thing
I did self harm in high school, never to a terribly concerning degree however. And most kinky fuckers into s and m type shit do have more extreme desires like cutting choking ect but a smart one will keep the things they practice safe sane and consesual. I definitely have some things that I sexually want to do, but have consistently affirmed to myself I will never touch in real life.
I love my stretch mark scars because my baby have me them. I like the scar I have from an operation because it acts as a reminder of who I am and what I've been through. If you mean self harm scars, I do t think you should like them because they come from a dark place, but there is nothing wrong with learning to accept them and have them act as a reminder that you got through a dark place and you're strong.
I don't know about self harm scars, but please try not to hurt yourself.
However, I have accepted and learned to like some of my imperfections. I walk with a slight limp and although people act as if it's a taboo subject to bring up and like they expect me to be ashamed of it, it's been how I am my entire life and it doesn't bother me at all. I've rarely felt self conscious about it.
I have a few others too that are just a part of what makes me who I am and either don't bother me or that I kind of like. I don't really have any scars at the moment besides some stretch marks from major growth spurts as an adolescent. I don't really love or hate those, and they're not very noticeable.
The question is, why do you cut yourself.
How often, how deep?
If its scratches.
Thats no different then a tattoo.
I guess Im saying what is your motivation?
1 scratches to leave a mark.
2 cuts, hoping someone will notice and think your suicidal and pay attention to you.
3 you like to transfer the mental pain into a physical pain, then like the scar, because as it heals you are past the mental B.S.
Whats your motivation?
I dont judge you for scarring.
As long as your reasoning is sound.