Is it normal to live a aimles and directionless life?

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i am really worried about future but cant do nothing about it!

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Of course you can do something about your future! For a start, you can change your attitude that you can't do anything about it and then change your life in whatever way will postively influence the rest of your life

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    • iritating
      8 years ago

      i really wish to change everything about me, i am willing to do it! But the question is what should i change into? i habve no direction, although i have the potential; its really shameful though but thats the truth of it!

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        Start off with one relatively small thing you don't like about yourself or your life and change that for the better, then build on that ....

        Cognitive Behavior Therapy would probably be a good thing to try because it teaches you how to change the self talk that's holding you back

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        • iritating
          8 years ago

          i guess i will try that! but idk if it will work out, any way wouldnt harm to try it so i will certainly try it! thank you :)

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          • Ellenna
            8 years ago

            Go on, give SOMETHING a go, I dare you! If you're only going to do things you KNOW will work out how you want them to, you're going to be stuck where you are for ever, which sounds pointless and boring and depressing.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Of course you can. It is yours and only yours to make into whatever you want it to be.
    But it's not going to happen by luck or chance. You are going to have to work your ass off to get the future you want, not come on some site and cry about your lack of a future.

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    • iritating
      8 years ago

      yeah i know you are right, but how can a person keep running without knowing where he wishes to reach?

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        Even running in circles is preferable to sitting in one place, sinking deeper and deeper into the mire.

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  • Myghoul2099
    8 years ago

    mine doesn't look good right now,but this might be my gf throwing her wealth in my face because thats her main value.

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    • deepdankstickygoo
      8 years ago

      She sounds like a real keeper.......

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  • Accelerated-Reader
    8 years ago

    i'm going to look into selling my blood for some income. maybe you should too?

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    • iritating
      8 years ago

      hahaha, no thanks man, already DONATED my blood for the year!

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