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whenever a reasonably attractive female flirts with me (or even treats me with kindness), my brain literally melts and ceases to function normally, and the only thing I can do at that point is drool and produce incomprehensible sounds from my mouth.
Yea I hear that mate. Totally cool when I'm not interested but not sure if she is but as soon as she turns 'round I turn to putty.
Truth is we need more practice with the opposite sex than we'd like to admit. Start by just striking up small conversation with someone that is 6 or a 7. Doesn't have to be much. Maybe even a hello. And gradually increase. You be the initiator.
See how that works.
Funny how it's only around women you find "reasonably attractive". Maybe you should just hang out with women you think are ugly. That would solve your problem, right?
yeah ugly women don't make me nervous, in fact I find them to be annoying and wish they would leave me alone
So you'd rather be alone or my brain literally melts and ceases to function than have a friend who you can talk to and do things with, because her looks annoy you?
Well aren't you a shallow, screwed up person?
i enjoy the excitement and raw energy of being in the company of an attractive woman, more than i fear the nervousness and awkwardness that i always project in those situations. unattractive women honestly bore me, no matter how wonderful their personality might be, and as a result i can't get that same emotional high when i'm not with an attractive woman.
Sorry to say this, but that's actually really depressing. I mean, what are you going to do if you marry a woman purely because of her perceived good looks, and then she grows older and unattractive to you? Are you going to cheat (and be a horrible person)? Are you going to stick with it, and be unhappy? It's important to be able to value the company of someone with a "wonderful personality", even when you don't find the individual attractive.