Is it normal to not be able to get over someone that’s gay?

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I’ve only felt this strong for someone when it comes to this guy, and as hard as I try to tell myself that I can’t be with him, I want nothing but to be his girlfriend and have a relationship with him. It feels like once I got to know him, I finally felt what love is like (I used to believe I was asexual and aromantic). Does this happen to anyone else, I mean liking someone who is either gay or completely unavailable?

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Based on 20 votes (16 yes)
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  • Cuntsiclestick
    4 years ago

    Yep, its normal and common for people to want someone they'll never ever be with. Your feelings for him will fade with time.
    :)

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    Maybe you have a fear of intimacy, or a fear of committment. What could be safer than someone you can never have?

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    • LilyFox
      4 years ago

      That’s actually a good point. I do kinda have a fear of abandonment in relationships, so maybe that’s why.

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago

        I appreciate your honesty, and straightforwardness.

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        • LilyFox
          4 years ago

          I mean no reason to not be, I wanted advice so I’m glad someone gave it. Thanks again :)

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          • RoseIsabella
            4 years ago

            You are most welcome.

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  • ellnell
    4 years ago

    Isn't this a movie plot

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    • LilyFox
      4 years ago

      Haha, guess it kinda does sound like that

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  • kinky_Wheels
    4 years ago

    Kinkay

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  • CozmoWank
    4 years ago

    Unrequited love isn't the end of the world. It just feels like it.

    https://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/6-ways-cope-with-unrequited-love.html

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