Is it normal to not learn from own mistakes but other peoples?

its been like this all my life. some mistakes i make over and over again but any mistakes i see other people that i make myself i learn and stop doing them. like most recently i met someone with no self belief and depressed and im depressed too she was struggling always drinking at home doing nothing and it changed me

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  • theseeker

    You can learn a lot from observation and reflection, but at some point you have to experience things that you can't see coming. There's nothing quite like learning from experiences because it really helps you understand things. Some mistakes are a lot more costly than others. As I always like to say, everyone makes mistakes, but one BIG mistake is all it takes.

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  • Arm0se

    It helps to see it from the other side. When you're the one going though it a lot of the time you don't realize it's the same as before until it's too late.

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