Is it normal to pitch a fit because my husband went out to lunch with a female

Back off, dumb cunt. The man can do as he pleases just as you can

Listen to yourself. She's even asking you out.

It's not that you don't trust her, it's that you don't trust your husband.

You're very insecure and distrustful.

Understand that your husband is not helpless. He's not an item that can get stolen. He's an adult who can make his own decisions, and you need to trust that he'll tell these women no if they ever try anything. If you can't trust him to be loyal to you, then the marriage will fall apart.

I dont blame you,a lot of affairs start at the workplace!It sounds like he is being honest though,people get jealous because they care too much,dont listen to these mental cases on here that talk like pigs lol,jealousy is a normal emotion

Your jealousy will surely end your marriage much quicker than anything else. If you don't trust the man, it's time to go. There is no relationship if there is no trust.

Grow up OP, if there were anything sinister about it he wouldn't have told you afterwards, would he now?

I have a friend dealing with this issue in a relationship right now and I've seen it happen all too often: your jealousy is YOUR problem and if you don't learn to trust you'll be confronted with a self-fulfilling prophecy. Accuse someone often often enough of being unfaithful or even thinking about it, and it's common for the innocent accused to decide they might as well do it if they're going to be suspected of it without foundation

I disagree with everyone. People call me jealous too but I am real good at picking up on bs and usually know when people around me are doing stuff they aren't suppose to be. A lunch break is a break, not work related. Why would a grown married man have any reason to go off to lunch with another woman? There aren't any other men for him to go to lunch with? And I see her invitation to meet you as a big red flag. If it was a simple lunch, why is she trying to get more emotional and meet his wife? (to sum you up and check out the competition) Your husband may have not meant anything by it but I would calmly tell him that you are uncomfortable with him spending any alone time with another woman outside of official work as boundary crossing and make sure you will abide by that as well.

You're husband will end up leaving you, if you continue to behave like that. Grow up

Did he pitch a tent in his pants...?

You're a jealous controlling shrew who's going to loose him if and when he gets the guts to tell you to go f*** yourself. He's allowed to have a female friend just as you're allowed to have a male friend. Or is it that you don't have any friends and you're jealous?

I think your reaction is normal. You obviously really love your husband. It's normal to feel jealousy. You have to cultivate patience, otherwise it may hurt your relationship.
Try to keep quiet and don't let it all out. Men do not want to hear it.

I think you should have lunch with this woman.

You should stay away from all men (except black pimps with large cocks). You are incurably toxic. Yuck!!

Insecure.

Did he let you know about it first? If I were going to lunch with a guy (even if it was for a work project) I would let my bf know first. It's common courtesy, esp. if you're in a committed relationship.

jealousy is actually a good sign.