Is it normal to prioritize masturbating and daydreaming about sex this much?

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I'm 21f, and I feel like I should add that I'm a virgin.

Anyways, I feel like it's a problem. I usually masturbated once a day (although I'd prefer to do it more). The problem lies in how I prioritize it. There's been many times where I didn't join fun group calls with my friends just because I'd rather be in bed and read smut while touching myself. Even when I'm out of the house, my daydreams take over and I space out a lot. I just feel so obsessive. Even when I work on hobbies that I love, daydreams can interfere.
I worry about how embarrassingly horny I'd be if I ever got a partner.

Is this normal?

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Based on 9 votes (7 yes)
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  • Grunewald
    1 year ago

    The more you feed it, the more it grows.

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  • jodi1955
    1 year ago

    when younger I did it at least once a day, and when ever and where ever it stuck me as the time. Sometimes we cannot get over the need to self satisfy and so we give in.. enjoy your time.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    1 year ago

    Yeah, it's a bit of a problem if its interfering with every day life. Why not find a partner to get it all out of your system?

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    • Ihidabody
      1 year ago

      I don't see how that will help the OP.

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    • Tinybird
      1 year ago

      that's easier said than done.

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  • sweetone89
    1 year ago

    When I was in my early 20s, I masturbated up to 4 times. In a row. You're normal. Now, I'm in my early 30s and wish I could have some of that excellent libido back. Enjoy it!

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    • Wow3986
      1 year ago

      Prioritizing sex isn't anywhere normal.

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  • Wow3986
    1 year ago

    Do you not realize how offensive this is?

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  • oldgoat65
    1 year ago

    How is masterbation offensive and or bullshit? Who are you hurting?

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  • oldgoat65
    1 year ago

    If it feels good, just do it

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    • Ihidabody
      1 year ago

      if I want to murder someone, I should do it because it feels good.

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      • oldgoat65
        1 year ago

        Bs you know damn well I was talking masterbation

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        • Ihidabody
          1 year ago

          With your logic, if something feels good we should do it because it gives us pleasure.

          Sorry, it's not bullshit, oldgoat.

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          • oldgoat65
            1 year ago

            Yes as long as your not hurting anyone else. We all masterbate, no matter if your with a partner or not

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            • Ihidabody
              1 year ago

              Do not even try to change what you said, you hedonistic dimwit.

              You said that if something feels good, to just do it. And that doesn't even making any sense. If you really believe that people should just do something if they get pleasure from it, then it won't matter if it hurts someone or not. Pleasure is key, right? That wasn't even what you were saying in the beginning. And I don't need you to tell me how you all masturbate. I know, and I don't care.

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          • oldgoat65
            1 year ago

            As long as it mutually agreed upon, why is that bullshit?

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            • Ihidabody
              1 year ago

              Your words, not mine.

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