Is it normal to stall visiting a man in his private home

Is it best to wait with seeing a mans home until you are ready for intimacy? Ive never had sexual intimacy so I dont know when that will be but I want to know him for a long time before I am because we have our own separare shares of mental health problems so I do think its extra important to be careful then. I prefer to be friends first because there is no pressure on friends to be intimate but since we met on a dating application we are already kissing and holding hands. I have told him I am demisexual which he says he respects but he's tried to invite me over many times, the first time he tried after 1 date already. He has now told me it is up to me when I feel ready to visit but I think that puts more pressure that when I say I am that also means I am ready for intimacy? At least I think hes looking for something serious because he says so and he has told his mom about me and says he wouldnt mind meeting my parents but for sure some guys only want a relationship for sex... and this guy is the typical who gets friendzoned a lot so he has a lot of history of getting rejected because he is too sweet and too vague with his interest. For sure a lot of such men unfortunately develop misogynistic attitudes which can show as sudden anger at rejection of anything physical when in a private setting where no one is around to see or hear anything and I want to avoid that, call me paranoid but I tend to romanticize people and overlook red flags so I am extra careful. We have been dating for 1 month but we didnt know each other at all prior and had texted a very tiny amount before our first date. We are both quiet by nature so we dont talk much when we are together so a month may sound much but we hardly know each other yet, due to that and I only just started experiencing attraction to him like 1 week ago.