Is it normal to still dream about being in relationship with her?

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Hey, so I kinda love one of my friends (girl). We can always talk hours and I feel the chemistry between us.

She broke up with her boyfriend (after 1,5 years), so I invited her for dinner and movie. We cuddled and everything was really nice (she left around 4-5 am because of responsibilities).

But then after like 14 days, she was back with her ex. We are still see each other on like 14 day basis and messaging through instagram. I still want her, but mentally I’m also reconciled that we might not be together. Should I just wait, or move on and be just friend with her (and maybe in future something will change).

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  • ellnell
    3 years ago

    She's obviously hung up on her ex. That's most likely not gonna work out for long though, it usually never does for people who go back to their ex. Just contine being her friend and give hints sometimes that you like her but don't just stick around because you're hoping to date her one day. If that's all then maybe let her go.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Thanks for the advice, it seems like it might be true. I'm not too focused on it anymore, because I have a lot work (luckily) and I can always entertain myself, but It's been pretty rough for 1-2 months... sometimes I was only singing sad songs and thinking about her and couldn't really work.

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  • Somenormie
    3 years ago

    It might give subtle hints that you have a crush on her.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Yeah, pretty obvious right? :D

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