Is it normal to stop interacting with men?

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I am doing a challenge where I stopped interacting with men, and I've had more clarity of mind, my emotions aren't out of whack as much. The few men that I know, I still chat with, but not adding any new male to my circle. And my circle aside from family, is very very very very tiny.

I noticed men are taking my words more seriously, as well as taking potentially dating me more seriously instead of just wanting sex.

I wish every woman could do this, only speak to male family members, close male friends, or useful misc males like grocery store clerks. In doing so, it all is on your agenda, they can never manipulate without your permission.

Being in the dating world, I've recognized men today take advantage of good-hearted women who just want to get to know a guy. Don't be taken advantage of and get your power back. Do not interact with them. And date no man unless he was a close friend FIRST.

Some women may know this already, but not everyone is raised the same. I personally believe I would benefit from a therapist/life coach and I have my consultation scheduled next monday. :)

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  • SkullsNRoses
    3 years ago

    Basically you’re ignoring fuck boys and dating apps? Sounds like a decent idea.

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  • Mini69
    3 years ago

    Men make up around 50% of the population. To stop interacting with them is not only impracticable for most of us, it is also very discriminatory in a world that already has far too much hatred. If you leave yourself open to abuse and being manipulated when you get in a relationship, or go on a date then you need to rethink your approach, but shutting men out completely is not the answer.

    When I was on the dating scene I had rules and set boundaries. If they didn’t like my rules then we didn’t pursue it any further. But by being up front from the start it was rarely an issue. I would tell them straight from day one the following:
    I don’t have sex on a first, second or third date.
    From date four onwards I might agree to sex, but I might not.
    When we do have sex I am in charge.
    I expect to be pampered before sex and brought to orgasm first either orally or fingers.
    After I have had an orgasm, I will decide if it’s time to stop or if we carry on.
    They only get to cum in me or on me when and if I say so.
    They will not wank off when they are with me unless I give them permission.
    If they break any of the rules they won’t see me again.

    I tended to find most men were quite turned on by being told exactly how it will be regarding sex. They would agree but would generally think I would cave in, but I never did. To this day my man has sex when and how I decide. He knows if he wants sex I will require an orgasm first but that doesn’t necessarily mean he will get it and there is only about a 1 in 3 chance. But if I don’t get an orgasm there is no chance.

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  • Tommythecaty
    3 years ago

    On behalf of evil men, we will miss you.

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  • BatterMilk
    3 years ago

    Not interacting with men will perpetuate the problem that you are describing. To say that only men take advantage of women, while saying all women are good-hearted is asinine and foolish at best.

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