Is it normal to talk with your ex/es?
Do you talk to your exes and are still friends? I don't really mean like besties but just from time to time to talk about stuff. Or is it more normal to not talk to your ex at all?
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Do you talk to your exes and are still friends? I don't really mean like besties but just from time to time to talk about stuff. Or is it more normal to not talk to your ex at all?
Im still in contact with a few from ages ago. Not the ex husband though. He's an immature twat.
Breaking up isn't always a terrible thing and people can still remain amicable with each other when a relationship doesn't work out. Thats my experience anyway.
While I have parted as friends with my ex's, and occasionally run into them and we are friendly. There is only 1 that I have regular communication with.
That one developed an interesting friendship that has lasted 40 years this fall (best friend status). We were even in and out of intimate relationships several times and seriously considered marriage twice. I'm still in communication with her and my wife has no problem with my spending time with her.
So to sum up: I do not maintain contact with most of my ex's; and 1 of them became a lifelong best friend.
I think some people like to keep exes still part of their life, or stay friends. I have a bad habit of cutting contact with someone after breaking up, so I can properly move on, even when they ask if we can still be friends afterwords. for me once the relationship is over its over, and they are a forgotten chapter of my life. It doesn't mean I would avoid them or ignore them, when they come back to my home town I would meet up with them if they want, but thats only for certain people whom i've had a friendship with before dating them. I'd say its normal as long as you aint sliding in.
One was my close friend before we very briefly dated in high school, and still is my close friend. We just didn't work out as a couple.
The other hates me, and I feel indifferent towards him.
I periodically talk to a few of my exes, we will almost get back together then stop talking for a few months.
I tend to stay away from exes. If staying friends works for you both, then nothing wrong with it.
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Nope, I stay away from my exes. I mean why would I want to talk to my exes?