Is it normal to think i'm never gonna be loved

Is it normal, i dont think ill ever be loved just because of the way i push people away and wont get too close to anyone. i dont think anyone will ever want the real ME. i dont know what to do. is this normal?

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89% Normal
Based on 54 votes (48 yes)
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  • Steve2.0

    Not many people are loved, most of our friends/relatives only fake it to make us feel good about ourselves.

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  • canihelpit

    I love you too.

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  • HoryLeo

    I love you.

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  • marginal_nomad

    Its normal because you will never be loved. In fact no one will ever be loved, we all live an empty existence. Love itself is a mere illusion. The moment you accept this truth, you will settle better. We come into this world alone, and leave alone.

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    • not2serious

      not if your a twin!!

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  • dolphin2525

    I feel the same way. When I talk to guys I always push them away. Then I get lonely because I don't have a lover. I always think no guy wants to be with me. I think it's normal.

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  • Death_Rises

    yes

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  • stonecutters93

    Just relax, it'll come when you least expect it. There's somebody out there for everyone.

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    • dom180

      Not mathamatically true.

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      • stonecutters93

        Maybe not mathematically, but I still like to believe it's true.

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        • dom180

          I agree with you, but I felt like a feeble attempt at humour was in order. There *is* someone for everyone if we factor in polygamy, homosexuality and widows.

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          • flutterhigh

            Don't forget necrophilia!

            Wakka wakka!

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      • flutterhigh

        LOL

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  • Millions have gone through what you're going through and they beat it. You're not alone.

    And it's normal. Sometimes I don't think anyone could love the totality of me.

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  • Its normal. You don't want to experience extreme heart ache. You're probably scared to be open as people will see that you're vulnerable and take advantage. If thats the reason then I understand.

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