Is it normal to want to be submissive or want your partner to be submissive

I don't think it's normal to want to be submissive. I think it's normal to strive for equality, and mutual respect. I wouldn't let anyone dominate me even if his life depended upon my submission to him. I'd rather die alone than than be forced to submit to anyone!

Truly macho, and strong men are so secure in their masculinity that they don't have to oppress, subjugate, or otherwise dominate anyone! The sort of men who always want to dominate others, and women in particular are usually just pathetic, little bitches underneath all their bravado. It's disgusting, and pathetic.

Here's a hilarious documentary on some very dysfunctional people in need of being institutionalized.
https://youtu.be/a29wkHBPHiY

Never give consent to doing anything you're not comfortable with just to please another person's selfish desires, honey, because it's not worth it!

When we got married we both agreed we should use the old fashioned vows so that I promised to love, honour and obey my husband. He told me that if I agreed to that, then once we were married he would expect absolute obedience, he would always make the final decision about everything and I would be punished with a spanking if he determined it necessary. I believe that a woman’s place is to serve and obey her husband so I willingly agreed. I have never regretted that decision. Admittedly I didn’t expect him to be anywhere near as strict with me as he is, but despite the discipline I believe he has always treated me well.

I am always commando as he doesn’t allow me to wear underwear of any sort. I always dress in skirts or dresses as he doesn’t allow anything else. I must always wear heels when I leave the house unless I am exercising. He enjoys finding discreet ways to bring me to orgasm when we are out. He expects to receive oral at least every few days and I must always swallow. I must have at least 2 orgasms per day, more if he decides he wants me to. I am kept on a strict diet, must exercise and maintain a healthy weight and must carry out all domestic chores to a high standard. Any breach of the rules and I will be spanked on my bare arse at a time and place that he decides. He usually spanks with his hand but not always, but it always hurts and will often make me cry. He always tells me how many strokes I am to receive and I have to count, if I start crying 5 extra are added and if I miscount he starts again.

I'm a switch. sometimes i like to be submissive. other times im dominate. sometimes im neither and we just fuck.

I guess morals are just objective because none of that sounds immoral to me. Except the "out of house" shit but only because thats sex offender territory

Sounds like fun. I don't see anything immoral in it. As far as rules go, that all depends but if you're going to get involved with things that may hurt, physically or emotionally, then you need some kind of code word or phrase for you to use for if you need him to stop if he's going too far. I love power plays myself. And other things!