Is it normal to want to tell everyone now

I’d go with telling immediate family and telling them not to say anything. If a miscarriage does happen, you won’t want it to be a shock to your family.

I had a miscarriage after telling everyone I was knocked up. Fucking terrible.

Congratulations :)

I get the whole "waiting until you're sure it's probably safe" thing, but I think if I were pregnant and lost it in the first trimester, I'd want the support of friends and family, not to hide it like some shameful secret.

You poor bastard.

I would tell my family. If I were a parent I would rather know that my daughter was pregnant and had a miscarriage than thinking she had never gotten pregnant when she did.

I think the twelve weeks is a good idea because of the chance of losing it before then; even in the modern day there's a pretty bis risk before that time. Congratulations though, dude, it should probably still be alright, especially if your misses is young; good luck, dude!

Theres no benefit in waiting in my opinion.

How to tell them is also a question.

Here would be the best way - say you want to play a matching game. You name an object and they say where it should be kept to avoid problems.

Like you say "gun" and they say "Safe".
You say "money" and they say "bank"
You say "Dingling" and they say "drawers".

Then you say, "Yeah, when Mr. Wanky comes out to play, bad things happen". They will figure it out.

Have fun regretting this till it grows older. I could never be a parent all i see are negatives without any positives. So many the negatives wipe out the double negative rule