Iint i am more bothered by my neighbor's attitude than noise?

I recently had a new neighbor move in who put her bed against our shared wall and proceeded to have "professionally" loud sex. So right or wrong I posted a joke on my Facebook about it, hoping that a mutual friend/ neighbor I.e. Someone she knew, would be able to more gently let her know that she should move her bed. Well it worked, but the loud sex neighbor came over crying (yes, actually crying) about her privacy. Initially her embarrassment kept her quiet, but before long she started back up again and even though she moved her bed, she was so loud that I had to go sleep on the couch. My problem with this situation is not her loud fake orgasms, my problem is that why should I care about her "privacy" if she so clearly doesn't.