Im a woman sleeping with a married woman

I am sleeping with my co-workers wife. A few weeks ago he told me to take her out and I did...by the middle of the night she was all over me...and by the end of the night we were sleeping together and it hasnt stopped. Im pretty sure that he knows Im sleeping with his wife, given that he knows I am a lesbian and shes always calling me and coming to stay the night. We say were friends but he has to know we are screwing around. Not too long ago we had a 3-some (I did not sleep with him) and nothing changed we are still all great friends, he and i are best friends at work and yet he knows his wife is coming home to me. This has to be one of the strangest experiences I have ever had. I have explained to her that I will not be with her if she left her hubby and she says that she has no intentions on doing that to him, she also knows that she is fulfilling a need right now and that when I am ready to start dating again this whole sex thing will not happen anymore. I am not "in love" with her or anything crazy like that and dont have any intentions on developing feelings for her in that way. I am just concerned that when I find another woman and she doesnt have this secret lover on the side, what will she do. Any advice?

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Comments ( 87 )
  • sadtruth

    Why can't I have problems like yours?!

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    • admirer

      I share your envy!

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    • JessMe89

      Haha right! Me toooo

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  • shamwow

    The real question, however, is: Are you both hot?

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  • zygoteXY

    ...lets NOT FORGET what happened to 'Ross' on the hit TV sitcom, "Friends..."

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    • Gbm1

      Omg your so awsome to make a friends reference in a post like this!

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    • Schindlerww

      Well, Carol did play for both teams in college

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  • reddawn17

    Maybe her husband wanted her to go out and find a girl that they could have a 3-some with (like a hot co-worker) and he doesn't care if she sleeps with the woman still because he doesn't find it threatening. He might think "I still get to f*** my wife and have the occasional chance at a 3-some" sounds like a good deal

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    • Nephew7

      Ikr

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  • Pixxie

    That is a interesting situation. A hot situation at that though. I guess if your all confortable with it then stick to it. There's nothing really wrong with it. As for if you find a new woman well I'm guessing you'll just move on with her. I'm sure your girl friend won't rip your head off for it, and who knows you may get a foursum some time.

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  • LeoWyatt

    I think I've found the start of a novel.

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  • AbbyNormalInColorado

    The real question is...why aren't you writing fiction for Penthouse?

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  • woooow. u need to read some yuri manga if you want to solve this problem, manga gives u expirience.

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    • theFinder

      I only came for this comment xD

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    • i also like yuri and yaoi.xD

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  • GropeJuice

    It seems to me that he could have assumed his wife was interested in woman, seeing as he asked you to take her out, he probably assumed that you would be good for her.

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  • simpleMom

    wow that crazy!

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  • 122333

    RUN.......... she might not b happy that u r movin on stop now b 4 u do fall in love it happined 2 me could not stop it now its the worse part wantin some1 u cant have

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  • brad015

    well if you feel comfortable about it then yes i guess it is. advice i don't know. but for the people who asks for pics shut the hell up and get a life.

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  • dice

    i think his wife ugly and he feel like i finally don't have to fuck her anymore

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  • chronsweet

    I think that you need to definitely know whether or not her husband and YOUR FRIEND know what is going on. Though you are both women, being married is still being married. If you are married and CHEATING on someone (whatever kind of marriage it is) then it is deceitful and wrong. And especially if you are not in love with this woman, you could potentially be helping to ruin her relationship (though it sounds ruined already), and your relationship with a friend for nothing more than a good romp in the hay (so to speak). I would evaluate everyone's feelings and know where everyone stands so noone gets hurt and relationship don't get ruined.

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  • tampabayallstar

    This one has troll written all over.

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  • sorebottom

    personally speaking as a woman you are probably going lesbian which is okay at some point, however what needs to be done for the time being is you should be turnd over her knee face down bare bottomed and soundley spanked for possibly ruining a good marriage

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    • ReaperAJ

      I believe she did say she's a lesbian!!! Not going lesbian...

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      • admirer

        "going lesbian".
        Nice one, retard.
        Reading. Some do it better than others.

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        • Wuggums47

          How the fuck do you go lesbian. I thought you didn't turn slowly into one or something, it's just the way you always were.

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    • Lovedoggielicks

      Sounds like wife is Bi- and wanted to go for it. Husband was thoroughly turned on by the prospect of watching his wife make love to another woman. As I read before, if you find someone that you really love, who loves sex as you do, I see an amazing foursome in the future. No worries love. Trust me, it will be amazing for all of you.

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  • activecatcow

    You need to stop. Tell your co-worker to get a divorce from her husband. You're sick.

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  • YE

    Carol?

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  • darausnicht

    My girlfriend and are same sex-ing it with our best friends who are a hot ass couple.

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  • lunarmoon90

    Wow, the closest i've gotten to a same sex attraction action was when i went to a live music event and a gal kissed me on the cheek. After i walked away, my hormones shot through the roof! lol

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  • TheTwoModeratleyLargePenisis

    Thats hot. Thats a hot way to live.

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  • Gina-G

    I imagine this is all over now after more than 5 years, but I have had sex with two women but both were single - I wasn't. The first one was a girl of a similar age to me that also worked for my husband in a bank. She was quite attractive and we often went out as a group. Then we went out and my bf couldn't make it, but we went anyway and ended up in her bed and had a night of sex! The second time was a girl I used to go to college with. She lives 60 miles from me so she was staying over. My bf was in the flat too, but went to bed early so we could catch up. When we went to bed I encouraged my friend into my bedroom, planning a threesome, but she backed out and went into the spare room. My Bf fucked me, then I told him that she didn't bring a nightdress, didn't wear knickers either and made a few "come-on" comments. Bf told me to go into the spare room naked and see what happened. I was a bit self-conscious having a cunt full of spunk but we had 2 hours of energetic sex and then there was no spunk inside me. The next morning we swore we would never do that again!

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  • Sad55

    Very common nowadays and certainly no surprise to me.

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  • Outsider21

    Thats hot :)

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  • Jazmanloss27

    How old are you.... i think i need help from a lesbian thats older than me

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  • yoongies

    why don't you sleep with me?.., I'm not married

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  • KeepsakeDoll

    I'm pretty sure this is a fetish for the both of them. As long as they're good with it, things are fine.

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  • rachel.dsouza

    oh oh..wow..its soooooooooo goood ;)

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  • Kobe6969

    Pocket pussy

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  • BunFun

    Sometimes i wish i was a lesbian... or a female

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  • smittyknowsstuff

    If u do find another woman,could i suggest,being a lesbian,u could jack her up with sum one else

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  • dandyLion

    i dont think he knows. i just think he trusts you and his WIFE since you stated that you and him are bestfreinds just as you are with his wife. and i also think that he is neglecting her, or maybe she just has an interest for woman, i dont think you should tell him though, it will break his heart because he trusted you two

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  • nervous1

    wow i didnt think iwould find a space to comment! well here goes a risk. i was happily married and my wife went through some tough changes. i didnt know if she would survive. our marriage didnt. i would have gladly handed her over to a kind coworker to experiment if ithought it would have saved our marriage. bottom line. i loved her very much and was scared she wasnt going to be o.k. i might have even gotten past a fling if she had one even with another man.

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  • rearea5194

    I can't help you much because I do not support gays

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  • Maybe the husband doesnt want her anymore and so by telling you to take her out he thought he could get rid of her??

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  • Welp... I gotta boner.... Yep

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  • c_meater

    Im a man but women know what to do n what they need i love. It

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    • c_meater

      Wish. My wife go for it to

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  • baryaqueen

    The lesbian part is pretty normal but I don't think that the husband tolerating it is normal... Well, even though it isn't normal, I think that's a good story. All three of you are happy with what you're doing despite it somehow, not being "morally correct". You should remember that things that aren't normal aren't always considered as wrong. Personally I'm happy with the "friendship" you guys have.

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  • joelsmo

    Do not worry about it, she is using you just as much as you are her. You had a 3 some and you are afraid of what? He knows, if he wishes to play with fire let him. You have no control over there marriage, what ever damage that could be done has been. Have you ever thought that maybe this is not so abnormal for them, maybe you aren't her first and when you are ready to move on the will just find another. I think you may believe you are more special than you really are. You are just a lay, a sexual conquest. There marriage is really none of your business.

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  • MochaMan

    It seems that your in a sticky situtation.
    But like most people have said confront the husband and make sure everthings in the Clear before anymore activites, I think.

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  • A_Man_With_A_Plan

    This is certainly strange!

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  • Excelerate

    so normal either she is Bisexual or she likes sex

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  • I think more communication wouldn't hurt and I see nothing wrong with what your doing by the way.

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  • VoLoPoK

    not cool, does not help my instinct to kill

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  • anon01

    Well, if all three of you are happy, then I guess it's ok.

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  • mywyldsyde

    I'll clean up o.k.? That is of course unless you are one of those ugly Melissa Ethridge or Rosie Odonnel lesbians.

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    • robbieforgotpw

      Or Ellen?

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  • infinity69

    mmm....punani.

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  • mimzah

    hmm.... The thng is ha wife will develop strng feelings 4 u and end up nt enjoying sex with ha man. And that will ruin their marriage and wots gna happen 2 ur friendshp?

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  • sydney15

    HOT!!! I'm a lesbian!! Plz plz plz sleep with me!!

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    • Sample-Stick

      Come and sleep with me

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    • yoongies

      come here.. I'll sleep with you!

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      • Sample-Stick

        Are you a lesbian?

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    • mimzah

      lol, dnt u hv a gf u cn slp with? That gal is with sum1

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  • bad-karma

    I'm jealous! I've ask my man to find a woman for me. I wish he would!

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  • kunall121

    sleep with me..http://sexstoriesforfree-really.blogspot.com/

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  • mieoux

    Since you had a three-some with him around then he probably knows you're sleeping together. You should just check with your lover to make sure the hubby is ok with it and they are in am open-relationship with you that way. If so then full speed ahead baby! Woooohooooh and Giddy up! However given that it's a co-worker keep your resume updated in case something explodes.

    Personally I would never be able to handle a third party in my relationship - and I can say never on that.

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  • naa182sb

    Nice. Pics?

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  • jc82592

    Thats Kinky ;)

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  • shouldiBmad

    This is strange not gonna lie. This isnt your normal typical situation haha...but if everyone is happy...well then cool. Hope it all works out in the end.

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  • Good for you. A girl sleeping with a girl isn't really doing much wrong and I am sure her husband wouldn't mind much.

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  • if i were u i would just stay a swinger dont get knee deep if the chicks married

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  • oskilover18

    Oh and ... I am so curious about having sex with a woman. If things don't work out with my current boyfriend, I would probably want to seek out a girl to try it with. I wouldn't call myself bi more like 95%% straight. Once I was utterly infatuated with this women who was a friend of mine in college. Unfortunately I don't think she felt the same, though I'm pretty sure she knew. hmm ... just babbling.

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  • oskilover18

    In all probability this is going to erupt in flames aka problem in work place when your co-worker finally flips or her continuing to pursue you when you aren't interested anymore. But I've also never been in this situation so I can't really say with much certainty.

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  • expoguy

    I think you need to speak to her, ask her if he knows what you two get up to, find out if the idea of her with another woman turns him onand if he would like to watch you two in action.
    At least you'll know if she's just enjoying herself and he's getting off on it or if you are both deceaving him, if he knows then theres no harm if not you might destroy a good friendship with him.

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    • I agree. She needs to level with you about where her husband is at. You should know, not just be guessing at, whether you are a party to deceit. This is different enough - but the key is that the consenting adults actually are consenting.

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  • cooze

    i think a guy doesnt see a girl on girl as a threat and it probably turns him on and asks for details the next morning every day but good luck having a 3-some with both of em

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    • mimzah

      he beta change b4 he looses her wife.

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  • duckfart77

    Honestly, he sounds like a very stupid man who wants to brag to his buddies that his wife has a g/f (low-intelligent, inexperienced men tend to find this sort of thing appealing). In my personal opinion with the way my wife and I do things (she is bisexual and was never with a girl sexually before marrying me). I told my wife that if she wanted to have sex with girls then I get to join in too, no way around it and it keeps things fair (she agreed and liked the idea of it anyway). The way that we view things in our marriage is that couples who play together stay together, we're both having fun, different and new experiences but neither of us have to worry about jealousy because we are BOTH with each other ALL the time and do EVERYTHING together. We are swingers (it's easier because when you do 3-somes it tends to bring on a LOT of drama, sex with married couples, it keeps things simple and still fun). I don't really have any advice for you, but I wouldn't have put myself in that position in the first place. NEVER mess with a married person (unless it's a mutual agreement and nobody gets hurt).

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  • shayj430

    THE SICKEST WEIRDEST THING I HAVE EVER HEARD IN MY ENTIRE LIFE !! OMG. the first time you guys did that you didnt know how you her hsband would react so first you wasnt even considerate of his feelings,but now that he is okay with it ir whatever you continue to do it, the fact of the matter is he probably is feeling some type of way about it just doesnt wanna loose his wife probably over speaking up about but the whole thing is N0T NORMAL , NOT NORMAL at all , and you guys all 3 need help i mean some DR. phil help !

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  • do you have oily anal discharge after this lesbian sex?

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  • Hehe lesbo

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    • robbieforgotpw

      Lesbo lololol

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    • homophobe

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  • myself11

    TROLL.
    Definitely writing this to get attention/write soft porn for the boys out there.
    Nice try!

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