Im obsessed with my daughter

Erm, well to me it sounds like you are the only one attracted to your daughter. The only reason you think she flirts with you, is because you want it to seem that way. She might only be touching your hand, for instance, as a daughter, because she trusts you as her father! If you try and make some move on her, think about what it might jepardise! She still needs to live her life and make decisions! Dont mess her up, please. I read earlier on this website that someone was messed up and became pervertedly obsessed with family bacause of something that her cousins did to her. You touching and saying things that are out of place to your daughter might effect her life on a bigger scale than you think. Please just think about HER well being, instead of the "Pleasure" you get from her.
To be quite honest, I dont think you really feel the need to touch her in her sleep, or get aroused by her easily. I think you just WANT that to happen so you discard the fact that it is your daughter, and go for what feels better to you.

I mean everything I said in the nicest way, only to put forward my view on the situation.

Because I Can.

Your daughter IS NOT FLIRTING with you.

You're taking things she does out of being comfortable around someone she should be able to trust, and twisting them to suit your own demented ideals and fantasies.

You WILL NOT move to Columbia, and you ARE NOT GOING TO MARRY YOUR DAUGHTER.

If you made the slightest hint at your intentions to her, she would, certainly, never be able to see you in the same light again. If eye to eye at all.

And if you ever do touch her in her sleep, your just desserts would be to end up in jail, and an outcast from your family.

That is YOUR DAUGHTER.

Seek Help.

Immediately.

ewww u fucking pervert...she's ur fucking daughter...ur disgusting!! u should go 2 jail just for ur thoughts...u need help a.s.a.p~u might as well go join a church n molest lil boys...at least they wouldnt be ur own fuckn daughter...ugh ur disgusting!!! n i married ur daughter bitch!!!

Where is it in the Bible that says if your eye causes you to sin it is better to cuz it out than sin because of it. Same with hands. Maybe you should cut your face off.

My ex had a dad who was obessed with her. He told her (when she was 13) that he was going to teach her about sex. So, he started to do it to her. He did her for 6 years. They did it anywhere from once a week to a few times a day depending on the situation at home. She said she didn't want to do it but NEVER turned him down one time. They really didn't have a good relationship after that. I have always wondered who needed it more after she got use to having it on a regular basis.

YOU PEDOPHILE!!!! IF IT WERE SOME RANDO GIRL IN A STORE THAT YOU AREN'T RELATED TO, THAT'S ONE THING, BUT WHEN YOU'RE OBSESSED WITH YOU OWN FREAKING DAUGHTER, THAT'S JUST SICK ON sO MANY LEVELS.

just when i thought this world couldn't get any stupider, YOU came along with this bull crap.

Yes, good idea! marry her and have 4393692496794857 children, eat frog soup everyday and be sure to have a pet worm which rapes cats.

You are way over the age to have younger children and if your family is close and you are confortable with your family 'in that way' than you are fine. AS LONG as both of you are over eighteen years old, it isn't really wrong but if you are fantasizine about your tenyear old stepdaughter, than you are truly fucked up and you should be ashamed though.

You guys this guy is just seeking advise don't call him a fucking pervert some people just have feelings like this

Eeeeeew that's why u have a wife u weirdo

If this is true it is possible. I am a psychologist and this does affect some fathers. Obviously u need to seek phychiatric help immediately so we don't read about u in the papers.

I agree with Budthewise. Anything goes between two adults as far as I'm concerned.

I'm only 21 and am not even thinking about having kids, but I've often feared that in the future if I ever had a hot daughter, I would feel the same way. It scares me :(

Pedobear says, "Too old is too old."

You really, really shouldn't have such feelings for your daughter. Society does not treat people like you kindly, as seen in the comments above mine. If you still love your daughter and her well-being, you would stop thinking incest-related thoughts. Ever thought this could destroy her psychologically if she ever came to know of this?...And hey, to commenters, the guy is just trying to seek some advice from you all, AND FYI, HE HAS NOT DONE ANYTHING BAD AT ALL TO HIS DAUGHTER! No need to go bash him so badly!! Just say he should refrain from all incest-related acts immediately and tell him the consequences if he doesn't! Seriously, most of you are just stating your biased opinion and not giving him any advice at all!

lol successful troll is successful

i don't believe your a "prevert" cuz of that, but i don't think she's flirting. why not wait till she lives her life a little (she has some growing up to do), and MAYBE later if she'S interested...you know. but for now, i really don't advise you touching her in her sleep. you don't wanna ruin for trust for you.

you guys know this is a joke......

It's completely normal, I'd love it if my dad fucked me! Go for it and touch her, have fun doing it, I know I would

In my honest opinion, the only thing that kind of makes this off to me is her age. Incest isn't an extremely terrible thing in my opinion but it's the fact that she most likely wont have feelings for you and she's underaged.

My wifes dad raped her from age 6 to 17 and i thank him for it cause now i can do anything to her and she thinks its normal.

no this is not normal.this is disturbing your her father somebody who sopose to be there through her rough times and tell her , her rights and wrongs not start loving her sexually.she is younger then you & plus she is your daughter you should not have these kind of feelings towards her..where is her mother? does she know you feel that way towards her..Uh..This is awkward and you need help..& if the cops found out about this they can trace this down.. and you'd get in big trouble for this..This is called incest..& shoudln't be allowed you shouldn't even feel any sexual contact with your daughter.. poor girl.. i'd kill myself if i had a father like you..I wonder how you treated her when she was just a baby :\

no it's NOT normal, it's filthy!!!! if u think ur gonna move to Columbia and get married, let alone marry her @ all, ur living in ur own fantasy land. That's gross- even though she's an adult, that's still ur child. do u really want 2 risk losing a bond (a PLEUTONIC bond) with ur daughter because of ur perverted thoughts?

to be honest, I can't really see any way this can work out. If it's how you feel, it would probably be for the best not to tell anybody.. sounds like poor advice, but I'm sure you're aware of the possible repercussions

I think you should be ashamed anyways. It doesn't matter if she is 18 or 4! She is your own daughter! You were part of her creation, don't take something so precious such as her innocence or virginity because of your sick mind. Surprisingly, many people find this normal. But it's not! Trust me! She is not flirting with you, why would she flirt with you!?!?! You are her father, I think you shouldn't be raising her. Do you realize the pain and sadness she would bare if you did that!?!? My mom had something similar happen to her, her uncle molested her, and she has endured so much pain from that! All it takes is one time, and it can really hurt her mentally, physically, emotionally, etc!

.................I hate to say this, but this is pretty normal. Now, if you were to actually say this in public society, you will be judged harshly and possibly incarcerated for sexual harassment towards children.

Please understand that you don't have a single chance with your daughter and that the signals she gives you are merely mutually between father and daughter.

She has her life and you have yours.
I'm sorry to say this but if you're just interesting in a fresh, young piece of meat, you need to invest some of your cash into getting a female escort for yourself, and maybe that will somewhat alleviate the feelings that you harbor for your daughter.

This was very hard for me to type as it was for you.
Good luck.

go see a freaking shrink . That's gross, for god's sake, she's your DAUGHTER?!

U are insane..... Seek for help

So you are planning on cheating on your wife with your daughter and marrying her? You're a fucking pervert. You need help. She is your DAUGHTER! How the hell could you even think that's normal? ITS NOT! You need to just go die for even thinking that way. That's one less molester in this world.

INCEST!!!! HELP!!! HELP!!! LOL

pervert

ur nothing but bullsh** go get ur perverted stuff in.

a pet worm raping cats is a good idea.
make sure you get one.

i get a kick out of reading these comments

because THIS IS A JOKEEE!!!!!

hey fbi?

LMAO

Ill be your daughter, i promise ill be good until you say otherwise

i started masturbating my daughter when she was 6 months old.

Hey Candace its not that easy .

Ok so this s not easy for me to say. I have a daughter 16 . She lives in another Country. We have been apart for a lot of years .
Her last visit was really fucked up. She is really Beautiful and reminds me of her Mum around the same age. We had a great holiday until one day when we went to friends of mine and got drunk together. On the way home she lay down at put her head on my lap.
She is really really Hot. But it was not a planned thing. I was drunk and got a hard on . She felt it and started rubbing her cheek on it .I stopped the car and was getting out when she grabbed me and said Daddy don't go. She has just got married. It stays our SECRET.

When you're obsessed with another, we read into their interaction and believe they are flirting when they're not. Please realize that she is NOT flirting with you.

Ewwwww no it's not normal!!' Get away from your daughter now. All of you so called dad's that have any of those thoughts. I never had a dad but I'd rather have no dad then one that is as sick as you pervs. You'll mess up your daughters for life.

I feel like this is a troll post but this post really is disgusting.

I dont mean to be hurtful, but this is not normal. You should talk to a professional (like a shrink). Stay away from your daughter before you do something you will regret. Meet someone else that makes you get the same feeling you get from your daughter.

So your daughter has developed into a good looking human being....it is normal to lust over good looking women, but you never let your daughter feel this, and you certainly don't touch her in that way. It is the same control you have when you are in a public place and see a good looking girl, you don't run over and start groping her....be proud that your daughter is becoming a good looking woman and always protect your father/daughter bond. Self control and the love your daughter has for you should be enough for you to want to protect that more than your desire to fuck her. Control yourself, because if you can't, the result is why society needs prisons.

hahaha ok listen its more normal than you think in fact a majority of fathers are attracted to their daughters and mothers to their sons any way it sounds to me that you are obsessive and horny as hell i say talk to her see how she feels maybe she feels the same way if so move away maybe change your names get married and live what short life you have left a happy man if not move on pretend it never happened and resume your normal relationship although i would not lead with honey im obsessed with you and i want to move to columbia and marry you and have a life together haha. aside from that if no one gets hurt everyone involved wants it and you all understand it completely then have fun and i'm not sure about her age but it helps if shes over 18 as to avoid potential problems with the law that would arise if someone were to find out that you admitted to your 15 year old daughter you want to be with her

Excellent troll, you have everybody screaming pervert. Hahahah(':

It's possible that she's flirting. I flirted with my dad. I knew it was safe and I knew that i turned him on so it was hard to resist. I even let him see me naked accidentally when I was fifteen. He looked thrilled and horrified at the same time! priceless! Just be surethat you dont confuse harmless flirtingwith a desire to take it further. She trusts you now. keep it that way.

My mouth dropped when I read this but that is definitely NOT normal for a parent to have feelings like that for their child my only advice to you is to get help without her knowing or your wife actually don't tell anybody

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