In 20’s , but never had a relationship yet

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Is it normal that I in my 20’s not saying what age in 20’s has not ever had a date?

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Based on 24 votes (21 yes)
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  • GuvnorsOtherWoman
    2 years ago

    I'm a lot older than you, friend (don't ask how much!) and I've never had a relationship, neither do I want one. Got better things to do than waste time on a relationship.

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    • [Old Memory]
      2 years ago

      👍🏻

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    2 years ago

    It depends. If you're in your early 20's society deems it normal. If you're in your mid to late 20's, it's not considered normal. I'd know because I didn't have my first official relationship till I was 26. I'm really glad I didn't rush shit. 26 was actually perfect for me. XD

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  • SugaDaegu_328
    2 years ago

    Very normal. I am 30 and still single.

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    • [Old Memory]
      2 years ago

      Thank you.👍🏻

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  • Millie_the_evil_saint
    2 years ago

    Ask out a guy (or girl) you feel attracted to. Just walk up to them and ask. Don't be shy. At least go on one date and see how things go from there.

    You don't have to wait for a man to approach you. A lot of men are scared and they secretly want us women to make the first move. A lot of men actually appreciate this confidence. So just... approach people.

    If you don't feel attracted to anyone, then just don't date. You don't have to date if you don't wanna. No one's forcing you to.

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  • Holzman_67
    2 years ago

    Is that due to just being incredibly busy all the time?

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    • [Old Memory]
      2 years ago

      I don’t know. Maybe because a long time ago I was asked by someone else for the guy asking me out will you go out with me I like you do you like me Me I am sorry I don’t like you I am too young oh no wonder why lol Or because now I got on here will you meet me without getting to know me much Not the right people yet or I don’t like anyone yet now think they have to be mine to like them or they don’t come here to see Me or get to know me or controlled by certain people not to date anyone unless right person Or because I always say no sadly I can’t meet up when I want to as an adult Might be why I am waiting

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      • Holzman_67
        2 years ago

        well it sounds like you’re being discerning, which is good. If you learn to love yourself it will go a long way and in time, it will happen, don’t lose faith.
        Keep working on yourself. All the best :)

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  • Somenormie
    2 years ago

    Yes its quite common even I haven't been in one yet since my last breakup.

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  • Grunewald
    2 years ago

    It's not 'usual', but it's certainly absolutely fine.

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  • bigbudchonger
    2 years ago

    I don't get why most people call this normal. This is clearly not normal. I wish you well and everything, and I hope you find someone, but no, most people have had at least one date/ relationship by the time they're in their 20's.

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    • allialli
      2 years ago

      some people just aren’t interested in dating until they’re older, or jus don’t wanna date at all.

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      • bigbudchonger
        2 years ago

        Ye some people don't/ aren't. Some people also eat shit. Neither are normal.

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        • allialli
          2 years ago

          are you comparing being single to eating shit?

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          • [Old Memory]
            2 years ago

            No

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          • bigbudchonger
            2 years ago

            No. If you really can't comprehend that point I'm trying to make then there's little to be said here.

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            • [Old Memory]
              2 years ago

              I guess because they want you to hang out before knowing each other is why and I don’t make what I want to happen or did not meet the right person yet idk

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