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Okay so my younger brother who is 16 is always trying to come on to me in a sexual way. Sometimes he even reaches for my vagina but i push him away. I don't know if this is normal or not, but it sure doesn't seem right to me. It has gotten so bad that i have called social services. Please help me!
Wake him up in the middle of the night, sitting on his chest with a french knife at his throat.
Tell him you can kill him at any time, and if he EVER touches you, or even THINKS about it, you will cut his dick off. You must say this with anger and hatred in your voice. Boys & men need to know we are crazy, as many of them tend to do what they want otherwise. They fear crazy women.
Then install an industrial strength lock on your door. He sounds like a rapist in the making. BTW, if he is your little brother, how old are you, and how soon until you move out?
People her brother isn't a little monster. It's up to you to teach him now, introduce him to your friends. Ask them to just be around him alot.
Help get his ass a little girlfriend! Thats the much safer approach then to label him a sexual predator. Punch him out. Knock his lights out. My big sister would. It wouldve been death had i tried something sick.
uhh...he's 16. he should know right from wrong, and this is very wrong. he sounds like he has issues. tell someone, not only for your safety but for his, and other girls he might come in contact with.
it's never acceptable to touch another persons genitals inappropriately ! Especially if they push you away, he sounds like he could become a rapist if he doesn't get help. Tell your parents.
eww i could never imagine my brother doing that, and if he did, i would kick his little horny ass
Did DSS address the issue?? He needs therapy and you need protection. This is not okay. You should not have to put up with such behavior. He is completely disrespecting you and your own sexuality by overstepping boundaries like this. You need to tell your parents...talk to a counselor. Do something. Whatever you do, do not do nothing. This issue has to be addressed. It is 100%% not okay and not normal. He has a problem and needs help. You need to do everything within your power to stop this behavior and you need the support of others.
Do you have a hand? can you make it into a fist? if so.......... HIT HIM LIKE HE IS THE DEVILS SON!!!!
This is very serious so please tell someone you can trust, family or a close friend. He won't stop on his own so do everything in your power to make it stop and do not give up.
The same thing happened to someone very close to me. She was raped by an older cousin when she was 15. It started the same way but because she didn't have a close bond with her family she didn't tell anyone and eventually he forced himself on her.
Your brother may be younger but if he can overpower you then it's only a matter of time before he will try. You should move in with another family member if at all possible and by all means stay away from him.
Tell .. tell ... tell. You have a right to be protected and free of this & your brother needs to be straightened out!
Who? Parents, teachers, police, social services...
you are his older sister it is your responsibility to teach him how things go in the world of dating and relationships. guide him and be there as his emotional support and he will thank you later.
When I was 16 my 14 year old sister hit on me. We ended up having a loving relationship. I am now 36 and happily married as is my sister. We still get together occasionally to make love to each other. It's a wonderful thing.
Seek help--teacher, parent, cop, social worker, pastor, friend's parent, other family member.
Seek help before it's too late.
Yes, it's normal for teenage boys to get "turned out" by their sisters and you're certainly not the only one who has ever had to deal with a situation like this.
I used to smell my sister's panties she let me she knew I was just curoius
There's....being turned on by a sister or brother and ....just being flat out, disrespectful and ignorant. Many of the younger generation these days are disrespectful, feel like they're all owed something and have no respect for family, authorities, etc. I miss the days of when it was ok for the neighbor to see you outside doing something wrong and drag you to your house by your ear telling your parents what you did. Seriously, I think alot of these kids nowadays just need a good hard smack or two to wake em up. My older sister punched me in the privates once or twice when I was younger if we had a fight, I didn't go run and tell my parents either, he knows what he's doing is wrong. Then again, I'm former military also, so I have no qualms about smacking someone straight. The punk needs a swift one and tell the parents, if that doesn't straighten em out, send em to boarding school or military school.....or kick em out of the house, a good night sleep outside in the snow with nowhere to go does wonders for smartening up a punk.
Talk to your parents before you get pregnant by your own fuckin brother.....
show him some porn on the internet watch with him after a while he will watch that with out you and not care about our in that way work for my friend
he might have been sexually abused by a family member when he was younger, and now he's sexually confused. He needs help.
Well, if he won't leave you alone, you probably did the right thing by calling social services. I hope they were able to help!
That is a very serious problem. He needs to get help. Also, talk to your parents about it. Good luck
Just because we shouldn't have sexual feelings for people were related to doesn't mean we don't have them. Anyone who has an attractive member in their family and says they haven't fantasized about them is lying.BUT just because we have these feelings doesn't mean would should act on them. You should talk to your brother and your parents and maybe get him some help.
notnormal89 I had a crush on my older cousin for awhile, but in all fairness he looked like the lead singer of The Who when he was younger. So it's like, well he sort of looked like a celebrity so, eh.
I think it must be so awkward to be the daughter of a male celebrity that makes most women wish they could get into their pants. I remember hearing that Steven Tyler's daughter told him one time before going to a party, not to return with a woman younger than she is.
it depends are you like really hot because if your not he has a huge problem
get him fixed. like a cat. then if he surprise attacks you you wont have to worry about your eggo being preggo.
DUDE! this is TOTALLY not normal...seriously wrong. YAL need to something. !
Its normal for him to be curious of you and or even attracted and sexually interested in you. Hes coming into his sexual realm. However that being said you need to decide if thats something you want to explore which by the sounds of it youre not interested in exploring that avenue and need to make that abundantly clear to him.
Lock your door and if he tries it again kick him in the privates my think twice
When you're younger, you have stages with a sibling of subconscious sexual things, maybe flirt in an odd way. I have an older sister, she would ask for backrubs when we were younger, she'd be in her bed, in just underwear and a bra, I would get so excited, I mean.....I was sitting on her thighs while she was on her stomach, rubbing her neck, back, shoulders, hips, butt, thighs, and she was in great shape, so how is a teenager with raging hormones not supposed to get rock hard? However, we never did anything with each other and honestly, I would fantasize, probably only because I was just so horny, and most of the time she'd ask for a back rub, I'd never want to, she'd have to bribe me to do it, I think it was like a dollar a minute or something. Fantasy is ok, the opposite sex we are in contact with the most growing up is our brothers/sisters, so as we're hitting puberty, it's next to impossible to not have this. As far as his actions...do you have a cell phone with a camera, tape recorder? I'd record this next time and threaten to tell your parents, that should scare him enough.
i got 3 bros and growing up was good and bad but they always looked at my breasts like all boys do so sort of got used to it even when they touched but they never touched my birth canal tho, his hormones are all over the place at the moment and you got to see if its the way you dress or talk to him etc etc and tell him he needs a gf and not you.
Hahaha I can't help but laugh at how gross people are. It is in no way okay to touch family in a sexual manner.
It is scary that the brother is doing this, and he has to be exposed (pun intended) and if therapy isnt successful, then disciplinary action taken. What scres me MOST is that this kind of situation would compel the girl to poll strangers online about something that has an obvious answer. Have we become a society so "tolerant" of deviant twisted behavior that a biological brother molesting his sister causes most in this forum to say to themselves.."hmmm, lets see, i wonder if this is normal?". The Parents have allowed t.v. and social websites to define right from wrong. People now 30 and under from 2011 going forward are in real trouble as society erodes and basic truth is gone for good. My comments are not based in religion, but you tell me how far do we have to degrade until ANYTHING is up for debate for "normal". I fully expect to read a post asking "IIN that I just stabbed my family to death while they slept? Then see 80 people debate the subject...good grief people.
I agree with most of what you say. But, I also deeply believe that this site is a place for people to go to post things that they either fantasize about or think about but a large majority of it is made up. In a way, it's a way for them to almost get off on their fantasies just writing about it, knowing other people are reading it and responding. I think many know alot of these things are not normal. I also think there are many who just make up weird stuff because they're younger, just to have a laugh.
I sware love,id grab his ball bag so tightly,id bring tears 2his eyes!! & id keep on sqeezing them,till he'd yell out!! Honestly love tell Ur parents about it!! its a disgrace if U let him get away with it!!! lots of love Xx
it time to teach your little brother a lesson use tell him to stand it his jocks hand behide his back and kick him in the balls very hard and while he is on the ground in pain explain to him if mom or dad found out what what you did make it firm and loud this normally works makeit very clear to himits not good for him at all kesdog
That don't seem rite and good for you for calling S.S. if you wouldn't have it would have gotten worse
he may well have some sort of learning disability, otherwise it's probably a job for a psychotherapist, most certainly not acceptable behaviour.
gowilla is taking the piss, check his/her profile :P
NO THAT IS NOT NORMAL AT ALL EVEN A LITTLE BIT.
But before you call social services, you should talk to him and tell him what he is doing will ruin your sibling relationship, and also that its wrong.
P.S. No matter who he tells, deny, deny, deny. Make HIM sound like the freak /nutcase.
NOT COOL. He needs therapy or this is going to land him in jail one day. he's going to cause you and others physical harm. Uncool.
i approve of teemon's suggestion. this young buck needs to learn how to treat women NOW instead of getting in trouble with some girl later on in life in HS or college. you could be the one to make the difference.
oh and if that doesn't work, have your BF beat his ass or call the cops/dshs