Into adult consensual spanking?

Just curious if you're into this form of foreplay...

Please comment how and when you got into it, and your current involvement. Are you glad spanking is part of your relationship with another adult?

Thanks!

I'm a gal that LIKES to get spanked! 43
I'm a gal that WANTS to get a spanking... 23
I'm a gal that likes to GIVE & GET spankings! 13
I'm a gal that likes to GIVE spankings! 4
I'm a guy that LIKES to get spanked! 52
I'm a guy that WANTS to get a spanking... 26
i'm a guy that likes to GIVE & GET spankings! 79
I'm a guy that likes to GIVE spankings! 39
No; spanking is a punishment--why would I want that? 16
I'm a kid and I hate it! 4
I'm a kid... but I get turned on my getting a spanking! ;-) 5
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  • bjBarry

    I had an ex-girlfriend that liked to spank and made me count the swats. Also, a girl that lived in an apartment above mine would stop by to administer spankings. She would start slow and build up to intense and then slow back down to just patting my very sore and warm tushie. It was very embarrassing but fun.

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  • Keller99

    Oh HELL yes. I'm not into BDSM or anything, but I do love a good spanking. It took me a while to come to grips with that, as outside the bedroom I'm a very confident, dominant type of guy who seems to be forever taking on leadership positions and looking after other people . . . But after giving it some thought I realised that's probably partly why being thrown over my partner's knee is such a turn-on. It's kind of nice to not be in control for once.

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  • Ouchie

    My husband and are are recently married but together for 6 years. He Spanks me regularly. It started out erotically, in college. And since then it's been erotic with a more domestic side. It almost always leads to sex. For example, yesterday I visited him at work and was admonished for fondling him under his desk while his secretary was in the room...that ended in a belting over his work desk with his door closed...And then sex.

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    • curious_and_tempted

      😄

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  • magic7

    I met an open Amazon German lady that loved talking about spanking because both her mother and father spank her all the way till she was 18 years old., I told her I had been spanked at home until I was about 10 years old but my last spanking was from a girlfriend about two years ago and it really hurt.
    She got quite exciting hearing that news and told me that she wanted to take me up into her bedroom and give me a real spanking with my own belt. I couldn't believe that instead of inviting me up to bed to fuck I was going to get my ass whipped. I didn't want to break up with this lady or disappoint her because she could really suck cock and keep me up all night long. To her surprise I agreed and she took me into the bedroom closed the door ordered me to get naked and took the belt out of the loops of my pants folded it up and waited for me to strip. She remained fully clothed taking me over her lap giving me the surprise of my life whipping my bare ass with my own belt so sore I couldn't sit for almost a week. She sent me home to think about it and told me to call her up if I wanted to remain her boyfriend. It hurt to sit driving home but all I could think about was this beautiful Amazon whipping my ass. I waited a couple hours and then called her back and said that was one of the most exciting experiences I've had in my life and begged her to keep me as your boyfriend. Needless to say we ended up getting married and the whippings never stopped or the variations.

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  • magic7

    I was 30 when I got my first adult spanking on my birthday. For starters she sucked me off first so the punishment would not be sexual. Making me lay naked on the bed on my belly she moved to my side and started. It was a bare naked, bare bottomed, and bare handed spanking from my wife who was fully clothed. She gave me her all leaving full handprints on my sore ass giving me more than 30 swats. I was still squirming from phantom blows after she stopped. It hurt like hell! She had been wanting this for a long time.

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  • CreamPuffs

    I'd certainly enjoy it if it weren't too rough... Like, no whips or paddles or canes, just a spread hand. I like feeling naughty, but at the same time pain can be distracting from the pleasure, making it unenjoyable. It should sting a bit though, otherwise it won't count as a punishment.

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  • PeeJay123

    I got into it as a child as a fun game - anything you can do I can do better! I think its great therapy as well as foreplay and however you use it if you do it well it releases endorphins in your body and relaxes you!

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  • sp4718

    My first wife and I got into spanking a few years into our marriage from reading letters to the editor in Penthouse. She had her most intense orgasms after a hard nude spanking. I enjoyed spanking her and also having her spank me.

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  • SometimesNaive

    Give and get baby. Got to actually try it about 2 years ago, always wanted to. I don't mean those butt smacks. I mean multiple hard cracks that leave you a bit sore after.

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  • Couman

    No.

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  • donuthell45

    I can't get into it. I can still remember some of the horrible whuppings I received as a very sarcastic strong willed child with either a switch I picked myself(if I didn't pick a big enough one oh boy) or a paddle or sometimes both. The worst one being when I took a joyride in the car by myself when I was twelve.
    My daughter likes it and think it is strange I don't.

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    • CreamPuffs

      It's really only for people into dominance and submission.

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  • Isitnormal.to

    I am an 18 years old girl, and i actually like to get spanks, my step brother always spank me if i've done something wrong, and i feel it enjoyable and turn me on to be honest.

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  • Spanknutt

    I have been giving spankings for 9 years (since my marriage broke up). I have done discipline but mostly I enjoy giving spankings for stress-relief or just for fun. It's also good foreplay if I'm with a monogamous partner, but I have spanked friends and strangers for a variety of reasons.

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  • saoirsep

    I'm a 26 year old girl who had never beenspanked in her life until 6 odd weeks ago I had a row with a spinster Aunt who was staying with my parents for a rew weeks.
    After a few bitter words between each other she looked saying "God but you are some spoiled brat who could do with a good spanking".I of course told her she wouldn't dare which she did, over her knee gave me 3/4 smacks on my bottom, I called her a "Bitch" wherupon lifted my little skirt over my bottom showing my tights [much to my disgust/disbalife she spanked me for a good few minutes until I lost all standing and started crying like a baby and wet myself.
    She dragged me off her knees gave me a short humiliting lecture and told me to go and get changed.
    I haven't been thbe same since for some reason I enjoyed it, don't understand it

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    • 8before7

      When she had you over her knee , did she spread your cheeks apart and slide some fingers in to your cunt and asshole and make you cum ?

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  • mockduck

    I would've had to invent it if spanking hadn't already existed. I truly believe I was born to be spanked. I was a shy, sensitive child, and no boy alive ever had a more purely smackable bottom than mine. With boyhood spankings only being threatened and never given, it became quite frustrating for me. By the time I was 13, I'd begun secretly paddling and strapping my bare backside.

    I was almost 30 before I ever got my first over-the-knee, bare bottom spanking - from the woman I was subsequently married to for ten years. Playful paddlings across her lap became a regular feature of our foreplay. The only problem was I wanted harder paddlings than she was comfortable giving. In the end, she cited spanking as one of her reasons for leaving me.

    In the years that followed, I spent a good several thousand dollars on spankings, strappings and paddlings from professional female dominants. The sting from a soundly spanked bottom is like a narcotic to me. Once I'm feeling it, I just want more and more.

    These days, I'm back to the occasional self-given paddling. It's obviously not as much fun as over-the-knee, but still, a spanking is a spanking.

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  • Mr-Myrtos

    I'm 36.
    Once some years ago I had a short term relationship and she wanted me to spank her a** really hard in order to have another orgasm.
    The first time was a new thing and I enjoy it but I must say that started to disturb me coz everytime she wanted harder and harder. I use to get extremely excited doing it but after the thing finished I didn't feel well with myself for some reason. I felt uncomfortable. I'm positive it hurted quite a lot:(
    Its nice to give the other the pleasure wanted, anyway I think before that there is one thousand different nice things to do before having the need to spank to get excited.
    I'm very open minded but spanking lives me a bit strange.
    It seems for what I know talking with friends that girls like it more than we think.

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  • Matt8111

    Sounds interesting

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  • Anonnet

    Haven't done it, but I'm pretty turned on by the idea.

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