Is a 4 and a half inch penis normal for a male ?

I am a 26 year old male. My issue is that I was left with severe ocd after I dabbled with meth/coke some years ago. I now have reason to believe that I was also left with Body Dysmorphic Disorder; a mental disorder in which you can't stop thinking about one or more perceived defects in your appearance. My erect penis varies between four and a half to slightly below 5in bone pressed; and that's on a good day. My penile condition has made me feel so embarrassed, ashamed and anxious to the point that I avoid many social situations and opportunities. I don't say this to boast (how could I) but in every job i've had people regard me as a very handsome man. Many woman have expressed interest in me yet I feel trapped and cursed because my condition stops me from pursuing a sexual relationship. This has been affecting my mental health dreadfully not to mention my sex life. I just got out of a 4yearlong and falsehearted relationship. Before i was more confident and able to sleep with woman. If there is anyone out there with some words of wisdom id appreciate it greatly. Thankyou.

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  • Mini69

    There are other ways to satisfy us apart from using your penis. I am married to a man with a small penis and he doesn’t really do it for me in that department. But he is a lovely man who I love being with. We needed a solution if we were to be together so I came up with one. I convinced him years ago to wear a chastity cage for me. I let him out every few weeks but he never knows when that will be. When he is out I will do whatever he wants, wherever he wants and however he wants, no limits. But he only gets between 1 and 6 hours determined by the role of a dice. When he is locked the tables are reversed so he regularly gives me oral, uses his fingers on me or vibrators. I also have him use a strapon to satisfy me sometimes. We don’t do all the fantasy shit on the internet, he is not feminised (except his underwear) and he doesn’t do all the housework or parade round in a maids outfit while I bark orders at him. It is simply about our sex life and dealing with him having a tiny penis. We are both very happy together and he says he has more sexual satisfaction this way than he ever had before. If you feel you are too small to have a fulfilling sex life I highly recommend finding someone you can ask to be your key holder.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    Most guys exaggerate their knob size, 4.5 is fine.

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  • a-curious-bunny

    4.5 is plenty. Are big clocks nice? Yes but they are also a chore to be with. Sex requires preparation in many cases. While with a more average endowed man such as your self it can just happen naturally. It doesn't matter if your boat is a cruise ship if you cant ever leave the harbor. Better to be on a sail boat and travel the ocean so to speak. Point being its not the size of the vessel but how you use it

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  • Curiouskitten444

    It's not a handicap. I wouldn't let it sway you too much. This is coming from a woman.

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  • XYXY

    If you only want to fuck, then you might be out of luck,
    So if you’re not well hung, you should learn to use your tongue,
    If you do well with your licking, I might let you put your dick in,
    But if your tongue can’t make me cum,
    Then your dick can’t have it’s fun.

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  • Tommythecaty

    Is on the small side

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  • my_life_my_way

    It’s really small but if you know how to use it, it shouldn’t matter too much. Girls probably aren’t gonna be coming at you with a tape measure so they probably won’t even know how small it is.

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