Is cuddling with another guy/girl cheating on your bf/gf?

I think anything past a friendly hug is crossing the line.

you're emotionally cheating which is worse i think

Well giving your mate a cuddle is one thing but to lay there cuddling them all night or whatever when u are in a relationship (Unless they are gay cus my best friend is too) is not fair, you have a partner for that, thats what they are there for :S

If your cuddling with sum1 other thn ur bf/gf thn u dnt deserve ur bf/gf. I consider that cheating.

Think of it this way, would you cuddle with someone you weren't attracted to physically, such as a fat or ugly person? You probably wouldn't. Close contact like that is sexual any way you slice it.

if it's an intimate/romantic moment then yes, if it's freezing and you're (for example) at a football game then no

Depends upon the intent of the cuddling and how your gf/bf feels about it. If you are in an open relationship and it's someone you've known for a long time then it's probably no biggie.

If your significant other gets jealous easy (as I do), cuddling with anyone besides them can be cheating.

I do not correlate friendly cuddling with cheating.

Depends if I stick it in

Cuddling is very intimate, that is definitely cheating.

yah, cheating

It really does depend. I cuddle with my girl friends (friends that are girls)and I don't do it because i LIKE them, i do it cause we are frineds

WTF!?

I can't believe people voted Yes.

no it's NOT CHEATING!

What if your friend was crying and you wanted to comfort her/him!? would you call that cheating then?

what if you meet a long lost friend and cuddle, would you call that cheating?

That's tough. If you think about it, it kind of is cheating because you're physically close to someone else, literally, but on the other hand, if that's all you're doing is spooning, then technically it's not cheating. It depends really where the couple draws the line.

It depends on the context. Mostly, no.

I think cuddling is flirtatious...but if it doesn't lead to anything else then perhaps it is ok, maybe...

It just isn't cheating. Your partner isn't the only person in your life, cuddling is just a friendly affection, now if you were actively kissing or having sex then that's when it becomes a problem, anything in that territory is when it becomes a problem.

So much as looking at another womans body is cheating. REAL MEN know..
Just dont look..

My bff is a girl and a serial dater, I'm a dude and a manwhore (not for actual money) she doesn't cheat on her partners, but because I've been the only guy in her life to not abandon her she's got an attachment to me and asks me to cuddle and spend the night. No sex, just strickly platonic. I'm on the fence with this one...

What if your significant other is not interested in intimacy anymore but you love them so much you don't want to leave them... You've spent years trying to fix the lack of intimacy but they're just not built that way and keep telling you they love you but just not interested in romance, intimacy or sex but still consider you the person they want to spend their life with because it's not you.... It's everyone they're not attracted to like that... Would it still be wrong to find someone to cuddle just to appease the need for some form of connection?

Love and sex are two different things. During sex every person want satisfaction more than anything and new taste, new face is always erotic. The person u love may not give u sexual satisfaction as u want or can not fulfil ur demand. May be u like some dirty sex. I love my bf but my one uncle give me sexual pleasure more than him. Specially I love when my uncle eat my ass and lick my armpits. I love the way he took my ass smell.

Well, look at it this way:
Spooning, if you are a guy your dick is being pushed up on a girls ass. Now if I were your girlfriend & walked into this sight I would be rather pissed.
If you a girl, your pushing your ass into some guys cock! Now if I were your boyfriend I'd be very mad!
I am a girl, & me & my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now at one point we were on a break, I went to go hangout with a guy whom liked me & we ended up cuddling, I felt ashamed because I loved my boyfriend very much & to me cuddling with someone is indeed a intimtimate act, I felt like I might as well of just had sexx with him. so even though we were on a break I told my boyfriend the next day & he was upset that I could & would be with someone else in that matter, we ended up getting back together because I realised I didn't want anyon e else. & he didn't want me to want to be with anyone else. Anywho not the point it is cheating! If it is okay with your partner that your cuddling with somebody else then good for you! But if it were & you confronted your bf/gf about it then I don't think you would asking this question.

I would say it's not an act of cheating but it can easily lead to a kiss or caress which is cheating for sure.

I would be more concerned with why you are cuddling with someone other than your gf/bf.

it is funny that this has crept up. i have a brother who was telling me something like this. A girl named Joanne was really close to my brother, she decided to make a move on my brother but he refused cuz she had recently split up with a friend of his. blah blah they got really close at one point then another friend came his name is tom, she ended up going out with tom after being rejected by my brother in a sense. so..they come over for a few nights to stay and play games chill out, but i always see that Joanne is always hovering around my brother, taking note to what he has to say, hugging him despite tom being there.

my brother then told me she was really hugging him one time, with tom there, constantly touching him hugging him, he even sed he felt her pressing her breasts on his shoulder. so yea sort of same situation here, i dont know if this is cheating or not but one thing is for sure that joanne still has a thing for my brother despite being ith tom for 2 years straight.

Anything that doesn't involve an exchange of fluids isn't cheating.

i dont think its cheating- but its toeing the line and something that should be avoided. a hug is friendly, a cuddle is more and should be reserved for your 'other'.

Hmm let's see you have a Boy/Girlfriend and your rubing your body with another Woman/Man body behind your Bf/Gf back. So if I was the boyfriend I would be pissed off for someone touching my girl body. Because cuddling is a one way of flirting and your Gf/Bf flirting with someone else is cheating

There's a fine line... u can cuddle 2 much... then its assumed u persue his affection. & that = cheating

That is kinda tough. You can cheat on your bf/gf but that would just be wrong giving a guy/girl a hug when you have someone. If I were you I would keep my distance with the guy/girl that you hug/cuddle/kiss on the cheek/ friend with that your to close with. But if you do have a friend like that and you have someone...you don't need that person if your hanging out with another guy/girl....just saying

no if its one of her female friends or relatives