Is ddlg normal, or does it take bdsm too far?

Is ddlg a normal, harmless fetish or is it an extremely weird way of "doing things"?

It's normal, I guess 17
You need Jesus 5
It's fine! 46
EW. 5
What the hell is ddlg 43
No, it's weird. Some BDSM is okay though 9
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  • Shmendan

    You know, me and my friends make fun of this website all the time. The people on this website are so fucked it is insane. Seriously, no one in the right mind would do ANYTHING on this website. Nobody i know would ever do that. If i asked my girlfriend, she would think i'm fucking insane. Me and her look arounds this website all the time for fun, although it kind of kills my brain cells.

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    • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously

      You look around this website for fun?!?!? How bloody boring are you? Why not get your own lives rocking instead of knocking other people? Oh wait... That would require you to actually have some imagination... I love how you blame this site for killing your brain cells! So all 5 of them are dead?!? I'll post something for you sweetie. Your dullsville existence would drive anyone insane you poor comatose bastard.

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    • Shmendan

      I doubt my fucking mom would do this

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      • Duderanch

        I know your fucking mom does anything.

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    • Anonnet

      Believe it or not, behind closed doors, some people do these things. All it takes is for two people to hook up who share the same fantasy and weird stuff can happen.

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    • mysistersshadow

      You know me and my friends think about ppl like you that live in safe little boxes with your boring ass lives and laugh our asses off. You've been given exactly 1 shot at life and we think your fucking insane not to experience it. When some of us die it will be with zero regrets for chances not taken and there will be YOU and your boring vanilla life with your boring vanilla friends. No thanks.

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      • Thorolf

        Boring is better then painful, and one can have an exciting life but not involving pain and humiliation like bdsm sometimes does.

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        • mysistersshadow

          Life is bigger than BDSM. Theres alot more included in what I was alluding to than BDSM.

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          • Thorolf

            Okay. Nevermind then.

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            • Shmendan

              Thorolf i really love you, you actually are a normal person, it is wonderful. Wait...theres one question to determine if you are normal or not. Is circumcision good or bad?

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        • Curious-trans

          No pain no gain, that is true about everything in life especially sexually get a good amount of pain going and your on your way to a knee shattering orgasm

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          • Shmendan

            Just so you know, nobody believes you, you are most likely some hairy trans person with fucking 10 million scars on your body with a fucking 10 inch wide gaping asshole. You enjoy shit, being beat up. Just look at yourself, this is not normal! You like being beat up by people! Most people describe being beat up as a negative awful moment in their live

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            • Curious-trans

              Well hairy yes everybody is until a razor or something is introduced so in the end no im not hairy sorry to disappoint. No cant say i got ten million scars well its possible i suppose but theyd have to be really really tiny i only got a few scars and the majority of the them i have no clue how for I've had em for as long as i can remember, why on earth you you think im scarred up? Ten inch gapping hole that would be impressive but na i can only go as far as about 2 and a half, gotta stop you right there mate i do not enjoy being beat up, what on earth would give you that impression? But honestly if someone tried to beeat me up qnd they were out if my abilty to defend myself id just draw on them simple as that, only the meek allow themselves to be victimized outside of physical/emotional pleasure

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          • Thorolf

            What if I'm not fucked in the head enough to be one of the retards who enjoy physical pain?

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          • RoseIsabella

            If you shatter your knees, how will you walk?

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      • Shmendan

        I'm not fucking boring you cunt. I am extreme when it comes to trying weird ass food and going on rides, i just don't like pain, especially if it's sexual, it fucking creeps me out. You know, my friends aren't vanilla, they are quite immature actually, but they are still my friends. Oh and my house isn't a box, it's a MEDIUM CLASS house. $150000.

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        • Duderanch

          You call women cunts? Not only are you boring you need a fucking good head kicking you gutless little prick.

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          • Shmendan

            Does it really matter if it's a male or female? The answer is no. This shitty reply chain is done, now everybody, stop replying

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            • Duderanch

              Wrong answer you boring little prick. What a fucking scum bag you are son!

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        • mysistersshadow

          Wow... I didn't think you would provide such a vivid confirmation of how dull you are. Good luck in safe boring land you wouldn't like real life anyway so its just as well your avoiding it.

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          • Shmendan

            So in order to be "fun" i need to eat shit and enjoy masochism (a form of mental illness)?

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            • mysistersshadow

              Go read you first post again genius.

              I'd say your pretty "fun" right now with how your painting yourself to not only be boring but a asshole as well. Well done. We don't get to many self righteous boring assholes around here unless you count the trolls.

              I like the I'm extreme when it comes to going on rides part. Fucking priceless.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Mwahahaha!

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      • Shmendan

        bwahahahaa

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    • ThatOneOfMe

      Okay? Lmao

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  • Curious-trans

    Ohh ok just looked it up yea thats totatly normal! Btw toe those if you who are ignorant to the term it is daddy dom little girl (according to Wikipedia)

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  • BlackyHancock

    I've never heard of this until now. It sounds kind of interesting and fun as long as everyone is a consenting adult. I'd be the DD!

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    • ThatOneOfMe

      Yeah it's between consenting people of age. Of course there are outliers that aren't, but the wide majority practice it in a "legal" manner.

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  • CountessDouche

    Wow, since "lifeistooshorttotakeseriously" sees the need to delete her comments and repost when people disagree with her, I'll just post my response to "her" here:

    Seriously?

    I'm all for two consenting adults engaging in fetishes, and I consider myself to be open minded, but I can understand people's discomfort with this particular fetish.

    It plays on power dynamics existing between fathers and daughters. It involves age play, and the fantasies are borderline pedophilic. Power dynamics in BDSM relationships can and often do involve age regression, and I don't necessarily have a problem with that. It can be done in a healthy manner, in the confines if an adult relationship, but I can see how it would make most people uncomfortable.

    I'm all for role play, and even age play, in controlled circumstances, but I personally would not want to be involved in a long term relationship with someone who was seriously invested in this type of role playing, especially if there was the possibility of children in the picture. I don't find that boundary to be "prude" at all...because, after all, when we get down to it, we're talking about an ADULT man pretending to fuck a TODDLER.

    Also, again, you type like a shitty columnist for Cosmo magazine, circa 1992. It's not very "grrrrl power" to delete the comments of other "sexy goddesses LOL" is it now?

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    • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously

      LOL. Sorry for delay it appears you've actually posted this reply in the wrong section but hey! Who's quibbling?

      My two comments appear on the page as posted. Who's deleted my comments?

      Guessing your open minded disposition is cowering somewhere behind the closed-minded, judgmental, Napoleon complex up front and center. I can picture you now, goose stepping up and down your living room like a Champion. Covered in cat hair right? Luv' the boots!

      Read your post three times. The first time took me 15 minutes to stop laughing. You know when you mistake something for comedy and laugh so hard tears stream down your cheeks? Anyway, then I read it again because it occurred to me you may actually be serious. Now I'm just freaked out because you are totally serious aren't you!?

      You actually believe your own hype. That DD/ll RP may translate beyond the exploration of sexual fantasy between two consenting adults? Don't you?

      You cannot for the life of you understand that DD/ll is about dominance and submission. That those very labels exist to represent scene boundaries for two consenting adults?

      It's not reassuring you are involved in this conversation now you can see the potential for children to be involved or harmed you sick twist.

      Beating up my opinion doesn't make you correct, bigger or better. It just indicates you like to dish it out, sling it up and pound away on your keyboard like a weird righteous little Mozart (minus the talent of course).

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      • CountessDouche

        Yeah , lol grrrl rawr with your big bad self, it's totes awesome, having grown women fucking shit themselves in nappies and hold teddies and suck suggestivly on a pacifier, whilst you naughty touch in the corner. Not creepy at all, lawls! High five, you bad naughty bitch.

        Anyways, whenever you feel like not pretending to be a verbally challenged millennial shit columnist, I'd be open to actually discussing the issue like an adult...if you want to stop going full retard.

        I did say I have no problem with age play between consenting adults, but if you can't see that it's used by some as a legal alternative to pedophelia, then you are as naive and short sighted as your shitty teenaged diction portrays you to be.

        Please continue the narrative about how grown adult men pretending to molest toddlers is totally acceptable, and anyone who has a problem with it is a sex-hating prude.

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        • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously

          You know until you came on the scene - I never understood the whole butch dyke 'fuck me like you hate me' scenario.

          Now I get it!

          It's not really my thing but I'm happy to watch you have at it? Only if it makes you feel less alone.

          Douche away..

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  • Tempest-au

    Provided it's between consenting adults, all DDlg is is (usually) mild BDSM with RP elements. Never done it personally, but if someone out there is willing to be my lg....

    (P.S. I promise to kiss it better after I spank it)

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  • ifuckhandsignalsdaily

    I'm into My Little Pony dominating Regular Show.

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  • Thorolf

    You people do your thing as long as it's all consensual.

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  • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously

    Of course it's bloody normal. Anything between two consenting adults, that is safe and doesn't cause injury is normal. All you prudes who have never been been brat enough to earn a good spanking by your DD should be ashamed of yourselves lol. Not so much into the lg myself but I'd never knock it if my partner was.

    PS. I know you :) So 'Daddy' I have no intention of being grounded. I'll be out with my girls having fun, being my usual bratty self. You can deal with me later when I get home. Don't wait up! LOL X

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    • Shmendan

      No comment.

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      • Duderanch

        Yet again another big steaming heap of boring cunt brought to you by shmendan.

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    • ThatOneOfMe

      You know me??

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      • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously

        No. Sorry. You're not my Daddy.

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    • Duderanch

      You destroy men for fun right?

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      • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously

        No I just play with the weak and feeble minded ones for amusement. I would never really hurt them.

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        • Duderanch

          So there's hope? Id spend the foreseeable future being badly hurt by you darlin' ;)

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          • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously

            That's very sweet of you but I'm not the marrying kind.

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            • Duderanch

              You got me girl!

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  • RoseIsabella

    I think all that shit is fucked up, and I don't care who knows it! Just cause something is legal between two consenting adults doesn't mean I'm obligated to respect those people. I'm judgmental and unashamed!

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    • ThatOneOfMe

      And that's perfectly okay lol. Taboo shit isn't interesting or weird if it's accepted by everyone.

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  • Itzzabella90

    I am into ddlg. I am married to my daddy who is 45 and i am 27. Been together 10 years. Yes people think it is weird. But whatever floats your boat. I met my daddy at 16 but we waited untill i was 18 to get close. Some people find it hard to process but as long as the people in the relationship consent i do not see any harm.

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  • mysistersshadow

    Its DD/lg and it just is what it is. Some ppl only rp occasionally, some play 24/7. There are far to many variables to give a easy answer.

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    • (Anti)Hero

      Creepy.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Very creepy.

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