Is his behaviour towards her normal

I have a friend who is in a long term relationship with a guy who thinks more of his friends than he does her. This man will go out of his way to be liked by random people that he’ll drive strangers around in his car using the petrol his partner paid for. These random people he meets use him for money free rides in the car & whatever else free they can get. This man lets random strangers dictate what he can & cant do. Basically what I’m getting at here is this man thinks more about people he doesn’t know than he does his own girlfriend I want to ask if this is normal?? Why does he act that way? Why does he put strangers before his relationship it’s as if he has an obsession about being liked please can someone shed some light on his behaviour? Thank you so much for your comments muchly appreciated 😊

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  • RoseIsabella

    That guy sounds like he's desperate for people's approval, and he probably has problems with codependency too. A lot of codependents have a very hard time saying no to people. I bet this guy has low self esteem, and craves acceptance very badly, but treats his lady badly, because he's lost respect for her. He probably thinks anyone who actually likes, and accepts him must have something wrong with themselves.

    That is probably one miserable ass dude, and hopefully your friend will give up on him soon.

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    • Thank you for your comment sorry it’s taken a while to get back to you. I’m happy to say that she’s left him. I’m helping her with the rest of her things today. He is a really horrible person who has made her feel like crap. The man is now an alcoholic & is going to lose everything because of these “friends” it’s as if he needs everyone to like him. He will say to her “ I’m the nicest kindest person you’ve ever met you’ll never find anyone who treats you as good as me” but this is a lie he’s not a nice person but in his head he thinks he is. I feel bad for her that she’s had to put up with him all this time. Thank you for your reply & time I hope you’re keeping well 😊😊take care xxx

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      • RoseIsabella

        😊👍🏻

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  • Somenormie

    There are some red flags in that story that don't add up.

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    • What do you mean by that? I’m new on here & I’m having trouble explaining things properly could you please explain what “don’t add up”

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