Is it bad that i don't know how?

I is a girl, and like most people do, I touch myself. The thing is, however, I don't know what I'm doing. My fingers are really awkward, it's hard to hit the spot on the clit just right, and I don't even know how to make myself cum. I just wish I knew what I was doing. I mean yeah, it takes time and I just have to explore my body, but I feel like I'm doing something wrong. Also, is there anything I can use to masturbate, household objects. I'm obviously not going to stick random items in me, but like, any suggestions for things I may be able to use. (that's safe, of course)

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  • A peeled cucumber

    Nobody said it yet, but staying hydrated helps

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    • CDmale4fem

      And when done you can always stop for a snack, slice up the cucumber and eat it.
      There are things like oils, cooking oils or body lotions that will help.

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      • No to me, I just can't

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      • A peeled cucumber is self lubricating, and you remove most of the grimy germs by peeling it

        Oils and stuff do help, but she's asking for home made toys, I'm assuming a trip to the local sex shop is out of the question since a vibrator would help her figure things out the best

        Sorry, I can't tell if you're being helpful or condescending, you're pretty reactive sometimes

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        • Understandable

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  • TheDustyMagician

    How about rubing on a pillow or table corner, I heard it works but I woundt know that since I male.

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    • For me it's hard to figure out how to do it just right.

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  • rocketdave

    If it would help I could rub it in to you>

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    • Oh really?

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      • rocketdave

        I don't have to use a finger?

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  • rocketdave

    Rub a standard lube onto it. with that you'll soon find the spot.

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    • Yeah I figured, thank you

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