Is it common for wife to want to cheat with the leader of the friend group?

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So i notice that my friends have this thing where im kinda the butt of jokes in the group. Its always been that way, & I didnt care at first but since im now married and in relationship, its kind of made me want to hang around my friends less because i feel emasculated.

My worst fear is for them to do that shit when shes around, making me look like a weaker man. Am i overexagerating or should i really consider leaving these guys alone. It hasnt happened yet but if we ever get back to going out & drinking like college days it could happen anytime...

For full disclosure: Theyre all taller than me at 6feet+ & im a stocky but 5'6 guy. Doesnt help that theyre in shape & i need to get back in the gym....
Thanx in advance

Natural and normal. Leave them alone 8
Nothing to worry about, shes faithful 6
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  • profanity
    1 year ago

    If like you say that "you are the butt of their jokes", then they are not your real friends. Sever ties, dont be a door mat.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      Yes I consider that as well. Every time I say something about it it's always, "don't be so sensitive that's just how we Joke Man", etc

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      • 1WeirdGuy
        1 year ago

        You need to just be vocal about it and be like "yall gotta quit busting my balls so much. I know you say you're just joking but its too much. Its annoying."

        Also dont laugh when they say start again just tell them to chill

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  • bigbudchonger
    1 year ago

    Just explain the situation to them like you have to us. My mates don't rip on me when women are around because you're right, it is emasculating. If they won't stop ripping on you then they're probably not the best mates.

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  • EnglishLad
    1 year ago

    Is it natural for women to want to all go after the most manly man? Yes.

    Does it suck? Yes.

    Can you do anything about female hypergamy? No.

    You have one single right over your partner as a man in a relationship. That is the right to walk away if she doesn't act right. Marry her and she takes that right away from you.

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  • RoseIsabella
    1 year ago

    Where is the option for I dunno?

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  • ospry
    1 year ago

    There's literally no information you provide in the body of the post that suggests your wife is attracted to any of them, let alone trying to cheat with your guys' "alpha". Where does the question even come from?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      I've seen on Twitter posts about women cheating on their man with the leader of the group

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      • ospry
        1 year ago

        They don't sound like a good friend group and you sound pretty insecure about your wife's loyalty and attraction to you. Maybe it would be a good idea to focus less on your friends and more on your marriage?

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